I had a somewhat regular cycle starting six months after getting off the pill 29-30 days. It took my husband and I 9 months, 3 months trying, 3 month break (we were moving), and 6 consecutive months to concieve her. You only have a 20-25% chance of concieving each month, and it can take a healthy couple up to and over a year to concieve. Best advice I can give you is start having sex every other day before and after you ovulate, if you know when you ovulate make a sex day that day.