You can tell her that you prefer she not cook for you or try to get
you to eat, that
you know
how to eat healthy and will take care of yourself, just as
you wish she would take care of herself.
I was anorexic and bulimic for 27 years b/4 getting into recovery. I watched friends die of this disease. I horrible to watch, but even worse to live. It literally takes your life from you, even if it doesn't kill you. You can see that. It takes friends away, family away, dreams away.