My situation is quite a bit different. I am 43, been with my husband 19 years, went through infertility
for 8 years and then... I developed Breast Cancer at 31. I had a massectomy and then a tram flap reconstruction(They take your muscle and fat from your tummy to reconstruct your breast). Soooo,6 Months later, I had a hernia and had to be opened up again and they put mesh in my tummy.Then, in 2002, I had the endometrial ablation for bleeding.