Having sex in marriage

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Avatar f tn Im having problems at this moment with my husband, He states im very insecure, jealous person, In a way he is right, Im pretty , thin and sexy, but there is something that bothers me, Maybe i dont express it correctly to him. I mean we both like sex, but because of health issues we are not having as much sex we would want to. I know he loves me, and he cares, at the same time he has a bad temper , that is when problems start, I resent not having sex and then when we see tv.
Avatar f tn I cannot marry someone that clearly finds me unattractive. I was already in a marriage like that. Oh and to top it off around friends he makes like I am saying no to sex all the time. Any helpers?
Avatar f tn She's in India (if you hover over a person's name, it shows their location if they've given it) Pandu87, follow this link, it will show you pictures and give you explanations about your female anatomy: http://www.luckymojo.com/faqs/altsex/vulva.html. Jim's recommendation of "The Joy of Sex" is good, it will help you to understand your body and your husband's body, and give you both ideas how to touch each other in a sexual way. 'What is important for sex?
Avatar f tn Hi there and welcome. Well, babies are certainly wonderful and I was so excited when I found out I was expecting my first. My husband and I had wanted that very much and were thrilled. But we too were a bit worried about the changes that were to come. It takes the we to an us. No longer is your partner your number one priority but that new baby takes precedence. Understanding that this will be the case for both you and your partner is really key.
Avatar m tn antigen test on 24 days,i had unprotected sex with my fiancee,about 2-3 times. 1 week after 24 antigen test, i stop to having unprotected sex with my fiancee,we always have protected sex. but she also had symyptoms like me. İ still have this one lymphnode on my left neck,painless after 8 months. during 1 year i had lots of symphtoms. Ok there are not because of hiv, but what the hell is this rashes now. And my fiancee had aphthae in here mounth.Why or what are those symphtoms?
Avatar m tn I feel a lot of discomfort in my testicles due to the lack of sex in my marriage. I feel very frustrated and feel like I'm going crazy! I have sex with my wife, maybe once every 3 - 4 months. She is very depressed at the moment. What shall I do? I don't want to resort to masturbation, because I feel I should only desire my wife and no other woman. I feel masturbation will only lead me further away from my wife and make me desire other women.
Avatar m tn There are so many reasons why a man may not be interested in having sex with you, but without his opening up and being honest, you'll never truly know why 1) Problems in the marriage. Did he and you have a falling out a year ago, when the sex with you stopped? 2) Does he have access to a computer, is there a possibility that he is watching porn? Some men are raised believing that it's okay to have relations with a sex trade worker.
Avatar f tn After then, your husband might be more in tune with the topic matter and more amenable to becoming actively involved in marriage counseling and a revival. or better yet, a marriage better than anything that either of you have experienced thus far. Adding new hobbies, and interests always revitalizes a relationship. So if you are proactive in that area , you'll be all the better for it.
Avatar f tn then are not interested in sex with their wife, which is obviously a sad situation. Or some guys just have a lower sex drive, as auntiejessi suggested. If he’s a bit older (over 40) he could be suffering from low-T which could cause a lack of interest in sex. There’s also the possibility he just needs smthg new - some new, different sexual position or smthg to spice things up - sometimes the ‘same old, same old’ can become routine or boring.
Avatar f tn Hi there and welcome. Congrats on the marriage!! I'm sorry you are having this difficulty. It SHOULD get better. I would try to relax. That WILL help. Yes, lubrication also helps so keep using the product you have. The vagina is made to stretch (we have babies through it and all) so know that this should get better. Very rarely, women have a condition in which they do have this pain and that is something to discuss with your doctor.
Avatar n tn don't blame yourself for his depression...there can be a million contributors to depression and while lack of sex, or infrequency thereof, could be a contributor, depression meds can also be a contributor. My wife and I haven't had sex in at least a year between her depression (brought on by a botched breast reconstruction surgery and resulting pain and other chronic pain) and my own depression brought on by who knows what..
Avatar f tn He loved me alot and I did too but I just thought it was better for me to get settled with someone as mature as my current husbad, It has been 3 years now and although he is sweet and all but we have issues. We dont have any sex (stopped soon after marriage) and hardly have things in common. He is helpful and sensetive but we lack the spark that I envy in couples.His reasons for no sex are mental and recently he has been going for help as well.
Avatar n tn To be honest, the reason sex dies in a marriage is because we get to comfortable with our spouses and it would be uncomfortable to talk about sex. This being said, you have to talk to her. My husband had no clue that I was just as unhappy about our sex life as he was. Thankfully for me, I am a very verbal person and so I was the one that said we need to do something about this. Little did I know, he wanted the samething. I would tell you to start slow. Start changing the way you talk.
Avatar m tn However, during their early self-pleasuring experiments, many men learn a very quick orgasm pattern in order to avoid detection—like in the bathroom (“You’ve been in there for hours! What are you doing?”) So if you learned to come quickly when being sexual with yourself, that can also set up a lifelong pattern. Learning to come quickly with a partner can also set up this pattern.
Avatar f tn ve been together 11 years, and married 5 with 4 children together. Our relationship started off with us having sex 1 to 3 times a day just about everyday, until our first child then once a day until we had our last 2 (twins). Having 4 children knocked us down to 1 to 3 times a week. Our children are now 9, 8, and the twins are about to be 7.
Avatar n tn I agree, it was indeed rape. However, I'm not going to go into that. Her issues are either she's tired from working, coming home, cooking for the family and than having to do it all over again the next day. Not exactly the most relaxing life. She had kids and than after the operation, which I'm assuming is a tubal ligation, she is in no mood. Her hormonal inbalance may play a part in this. She should get her blood work checked by a doctor.
Avatar m tn I once cheated my wife five years ago with a prostitute and devoped urethritis. This was the only other woman I had sex other than my wife. HSV -1 IgG is positive. HSV -2, HIV, Gonnoreha, Chlyamadia, Syphilis and other STDs are negative. I revealed this to my wife about the encounter with the prostitute. She is not willing to have sex with me since I have HSV -1. I told her to get herself tested. She is unwilling to get tested. Please advise.
Avatar f tn Is it wrong for me to go out of my marriage for sex? Now understand being a spanish women, I am very passionate..
Avatar f tn I'm 21 years old and I've never had intercourse before. My fiance is about 6'2 and I'm 5'11. We've been in a relationship for a long time. Sometimes when we're making out, he fingers me and we've had oral (but I've never had an orgasm). We wanted to wait until marriage before having intercourse and next week is the big day.
520625 tn?1211982982 Do you think its possible to have a sexless marriage? My husband and I are totally in love with each other, but our marriage is not and has never been based on sex. It has almost been a year since we have had sex (be a yr in June). But it doesn't really seem to bother us much. We don't talk about much, we kid with each other about it, and we often cuddle, do the feel and touch thing all throughout the day, kiss each other every morning and every night, but still know intercourse.
557490 tn?1326793583 and he keeps asking about letting me let him insert his penis in her and dont be mad if he gets off in her. i guess what scares me is that to many people i know that have done this have ended up in seperation. i dont want that. but i do want to keep our sex life interesting and fun. i have started buying toys and seeing what that does for us.
Avatar n tn Have you ever having sex in your courtship? Marriage with no sex is imposible except for other purpose. I think he just use you for supporting him financially. You should not wasting anymore time with him, 3 years is enough. Obviously he is not care for you. go get a divorce. It's better live alone with your first husband's memory and use your money to make you happy .
Avatar f tn I am generally very disinterested in sex. I have an aversion towards sex and no positive attitude towards sex. I never enjoy sex. Why, I do not know . Could this be a reason for my non conception. What are my chances of conception in a normal way. Please suggest what should we do next. I am enclosing reports of various investigations we underwent. What do these results suggest. I would like to know the cost of IUI and IVF and ICSI.
Avatar f tn My husband recently left me .. I'm due n 3 weeks.. I feel super sad .. Cry I want him back ... He says he wants a divorce he's not happy... He came to say bye to my daughter of 4 yrs old and we ended up having sex than later on tells me it was juss sex n doesn't mean he wants to get back togather.. I'm so confused what shld I do???
Avatar f tn I'm 8 weeks pregnant and my husband is afraid of having sex with me. I jokingly said maybe you can take me to the sex shop to buy something for myself since you don't want to have sex, and he agreed! I Feel so unattractive to him and he tells me he doesn't want to have sex because he is afraid of hurting the baby. I told him that's not how it works, you can't hurt the baby.
Avatar f tn Starlight, I found out in August that I have Hep C. I have been with my husband for 18 years. He was tested after I was diagonsed and he does not have it. From what I understand sexual transmission is the least possible way of transmitting. I have been injured and had surgerys and he has taken care of me. We have shared a toothbrush in an emergency situation and everything else you can imagine. WHen I found out I was terrified that people would treat me different.