Having sex hurts my girlfriend

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Avatar f tn ok so I am a lesbian and when my girlfriend and i have sex it hurts her.... I'm use to rough sex and i know she isnt so i try to be really soft with her, but 80% of the time she tells me to stop..... and she never gets off and I do..... what can i do to make her feel more comforterable.....
Avatar m tn Me and my gf are having sex maybe once or twice a week, however shes finding it very painfull because of how tight she is, we go slow and try to make it work but it just doesnt happen shes in quite a bit of pain and has even cryed, shes wet so thats not the problem, and she dont really wanna go to the docs to talk about, shes not a virgin and was fine about 2 years ago
Avatar m tn I had sex with my boyfriend tonight, it wasn't slow or anything. But afterwards i noticed my vagina felt a bit sore. I usally have a little flap of skin between the vagina & near the bum. it's to like, separate them both i guess? i think so anyway. well, i think i might have spilt it? There doesn't seem to be that little bit of skin there anymore. It's a bit sore, like stingy sore & alot of fluid seems to be there. unless it's trying to feel i dunno.
Avatar m tn Life for me is hell not having nobody to confide to. Every time I have sex the ladies away end up having some amazing orgasm because i last long and they complain about how thick my **** is. So they end up begging me to stop. I tell you this their not much I can't take at this point. Now I feel like killing myself. I say to myself if I can enjoy sex or much less have a girlfriend what the point of living. If you don't here from me in couple of month you know I have killed myself.
2053975 tn?1343405733 Im 35 Weeks going on 36 and sex is complicated. I feel like my girl part is literally rejecting my husband. Different positions hurt to. So we stopped trying and its been two Weeks, but I know sex and walking are the only thing that help at the end. Any suggestions would help.
Avatar m tn my girlfriend gave birth to my son a month ago and we had sex last night. we didn't use a condom and didn't even do it that long, only for two or three mins to be exact. I'm sure i didn't ijaculate or anything like that. but her bleeding went away and now she has cramps. what is this a sign of? can somebody help me please!
Avatar f tn Whenever I have sex.. my lower stomach always hurts. One time after having intercourse the pain was soo unbearable that my boyfriend had to take me to the hospital and that resulted in the removal of my appendix. The pain isn't bad all the time.. but I can definitly feel some discomfort afterwards. Could this just be because of the moving around of everything inside?? Help!!
Avatar n tn I am a 21 year old male. I was having sex with my girlfriend, when all of a sudden i heaard a pop on my penis and it hurt. Ever since that day me penis got extremely swollen, that I cannot push my skin back because it huts.As i touch my penis i feel really bumpy areas. I cannot even have comfortable sex with her because it hurts me extremely bad. What does this mean. How do i fix i. I really need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Avatar f tn After I had sex with my girlfriend I notice there was blood, I went to the bathroom and there blood wouldn't stop it was like I had cut myself, I used a mirror to look and I've noticed kind of like a long slice near the hole and the skin has been taken off, it keeps bleeding a little bit, stings when I wash it or have a wee and it hurts to sit down or walk, it's been 2 days now, does anyone know what I should do, I preferably want to avoid going to my doctor.
Avatar f tn I stopped bleeding around 2 weeks after my dnc but didnt have sex until I was 4 weeks past having it done and I was fine. Could of been to soon, if it hurts though you shouldn't push yourself cus you could cause problems.
Avatar m tn I didnt have sex with anyone, (99% sure). I have had these small sores on my penis from when my girlfriend had rubbed it to hard. Well they had been scabbed up but still slightly irritating. Now... they just seem to be getting worse and the bottom tip of my penis hurts constantly and there seem to be a few NEW small bumps there.
Avatar f tn I know this will sound strange but it hurts when i have sex with my husband. And some times he says he can feel something there and it blocks him from entering me. I had a complete hysterectomy . so not sure why it is doing that for? Even at times when he gets somewhat rough i can feel pain going up my spine, even when he said something is blocking him i can feel like something is there. .
Avatar m tn s told me that it hurts when I go in. I guess it hurts pretty bad. This worries because I guess something can happen where the baby (if there is one?) attaches to the wrong part or something. She told me it feels like the pain is in her stomach. Anyway, she's going to the doctor on Saturday, I'm just curious to see what others thought. Thanks for any help/advice.
Avatar n tn After me and my husband have sex it hurts, is that normal? Is their something i can do to stop it? I'm 30 weeks and 2 days.
Avatar n tn My girlfriend and I have been dating for about three months and she's a virgin. We don't plan to have intercourse unless we get married, but we still do other things such as fingering and oral sex. She told me that she has never had an orgasm, even when masturbating, and she's 27. Any time she gets close (such as when I'm rubbing her vagina or performing oral sex on her) she makes me stop.
Avatar f tn my hymen hurts. it feels like it is ripping. it only hurts when i first start to have sex, then it goes away. its not red, theres no discharge, doesn't smell or itch. i lost my virginity about 6 years ago (i'm 25) so now why all of a sudden am i having a problem? i just went to the gyno and she didnt mention anything. its off and on so i dunno. what causes your hymen to hurt? i've been having sex w/ the same partner for almost 3 years, anyone have advice?
Avatar m tn Try stopping all masturbation so that all sexual release is with your girlfriend. It may be that your masturbation method feels so different from having intercourse and oral sex with your girlfriend. You've gotten used to masturbating in a certain way that feels good so that anything else just doesn't feel right. Can you ejaculate if your girlfriend gives you a hand job?
Avatar m tn Being non- orgasmic through intercourse is so usual as to be normal for many women. Make sure she has had an orgasm before intercourse to maximize lubrication. Beyond that I can't say why your girlfriend is having pain during intercourse -- dyspareunia in doctor speak. This may need to be looked into by way of US scan.
Avatar f tn m not sure what is going on with my body. This all started after I got a uti, and my doctor said no sex for 10 days but we tried having sex on the 6th day but had to stop because it was too dry and hurt. So then we started doing anal and from that day I can't stop thinking about doing anal. Could that be my problem?
Avatar f tn So I've been dating girlfriend for a month now and 3 days ago she gave me blowjob (without a condom). Next day at night i got really sick....next morning i was sneezing like older grandpa,bleeded through nose,got little fever and my throat hurts....i don't know is that because i got STD/STI or i'm for real sick... She gave blowjob before to her ex and they had protected sex....he is okay no STD or something....but I'm scared cause i heared you get sick if you have STD...
Avatar n tn I m having sex with my girlfriend from last 10 days continously.Today she got unbearable pain inside her vagina during intercourse (without condom).She even cry with that pain.I don't know what to do now please help me i am worried for her.
Avatar m tn If you don't understand that 'pullingout'does not prevent pregnacny then you should not be having sex.
Avatar n tn The slight pain while urinating go on for like weeks until i treated it doxycline and zithromax, however, on May 24 still having sorethroat and cold, my trapezius started to ache, the ache crawl into my neck and thereafter i started to feel pain under my armpit, and then on my lowerarm and i occasionally feel tingling in my fingers and wrists, i had a sore like color on the back of my left ear, On May 27 i went to see a doctor and he said that i have a sore neck due to my sorethroat, however
Avatar n tn I'll be 38 weeks pregnant Thursday. I was wondering why having sex hurts so much! Today I had sex with my baby's daddy and while in process lol It Hurted really bad. This been happening since I was 5months. After we were done I couldn't even walk nor sit & I wanted to cry. He was laughing cus he always think its funny.
Avatar m tn m about to engage in sex with my girlfriend in a few days , but as uncircumsized virgin,I tried to practice by putting on a condom,but as the instruction said,roll the fore skin back,it hurts terribly,and as my girlfriend has been having sex for about a year now with other boys,I dont wanna embarrass myself.
Avatar n tn I giggled while reading this lol me and my husband were fairly rough while I was pregnant with our first mostly because we didn't find out we were with baby until I was about 16 weeks he was born perfectly fine and healthy.