Hey dude, I was in your shoes most of my life. I started watching pr0n and masturbating to it when I was in junior high. When I had finally had sex the first time in high school, I had already "programmed" myself to *** quickly while masturbating. Thus, I had already wired myself to premature ejaculation. Problem is, I kept up doing this, for 25 YEARS. I, too, would masturbate to porn (now on a computer! Woohoo) behind the wife's back. We, too, had sex rarely.