If you are finishing
sex before your wife is done there WILL be
a problem
in the marriage. At one time
in my life that was taking place. I was upset,frastrated,it came to the point where I stopped having sex----i was thinking what for,i'm not getting nothing out of it.Then we talked about things we could do, There are sex toys you could use on her,your mouth/tongue, the fingers, please her that way and the sex in yr relationship will get amazing!