Having sex before an abortion

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Avatar n tn While I an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> to admit that nothing it impossible...the chances of an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> getting pregnant from intercourse the day <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>before</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> is so astronomically slim...I an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> to say, no, an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> aren't going to get pregnant. Please do an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>rself a favor and use a condom EVERY time. Condoms not only help prevent unplanned pregnancy, they help protect against an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sexan>ually transmitted diseases. an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r partner can an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> an STD and not even know it. STDs can cause long term pain, disability, infertility and even death.
Avatar f tn Most doctors recommend a period of time to resume <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sex</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> after <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> of 6 weeks or at least until an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r follow up doctor's appt. to make sure an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> are properly healed. an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> should allow an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r body to rest and get back to 'normal' an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>beforean> considering another child. and also, as I said---- an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> want to make sure an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r emotions and hormones an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> normalized after the last pregnancy and termination an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>beforean> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> make such a big decision to try to become pregnant again.
Avatar n tn Already I had an surgical <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>before</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> 5 years and that to exactly 3 months was going. an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> this time I will do <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span>, then will it affect my future pregnancies?
Avatar n tn there are other options than abortion. and in the united states 24 weeks is the limit for <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span>. after 24 weeks it is illegal. <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>before</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> do an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> the abortion...here's something about a baby at 18 weeks... Head to rump, an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r baby is about 5 1/2 inches long (about the length of a bell pepper) and he weighs almost 7 ounces. He's busy flexing his arms and legs — movements that an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>'ll start noticing more and more in the weeks ahead.
Avatar f tn i am going to an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> on thursday, i am scared of not having kids again because they told me that there is a risk of not an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> kids again. i am only 16 and i dont want my future plans gone. i was wondering an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> i can an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> intercourse of the abortion? thanks for an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r help This discussion is related to <a href='/posts/show/262354'>How long an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>beforean> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sexan> after termination?</a>.
Avatar f tn I got <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> on june 19th I was 8 weeks pregnant I went to the the hospital this past saturday they did a blood and urine test that both came out positive an ultrasound was aslo done ans I was told that they didnt know an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> it was pieces of the aborted baby they were seeing or an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> it was the start of a new pregnant I got discharged and was told to follow up monday I end up goin back to the er where they test the pregnancy hormones in my blood they were lower from the saturday i came in I end u
6387609 tn?1393278331 But ShouldIt Come Down To The Dan style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan>ference Between Having To an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> For Medical Reason and Having <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> Purely Because an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> Weren't Careful and Didn't Use ProtectIon That One Time? Is There A Dan style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan>ference Or No?
Avatar f tn I dont believe in abortions now an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> a women was raped thats a dan style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan>ferent situation but il be the first to say i hate ppl who get them idc u knew the consquences of having <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sex</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>unprotectedan> <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>before</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> did it i think ppl who get abortion just making innocent babies suffer for they own stupid mistakes an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> u dont want the baby put the baby up for adoptation but dont make an innocent child suffer that bad for something an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> did smh plenty of women out here cant an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> babies but females out here constantly g
Avatar f tn an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> u do an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> u need to gon on birth control because its not good for ur body to be having multiple abortions and its not good mentally either. Its an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r choice and an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> u decide to keep ur baby power to ya but make sure that u are going to love and support ur baby and protect and will give him or her the best an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> can...
Avatar m tn an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>'re entitled to an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r opinion, but so is everyone else, and that's exactly why abortion is legal, because each person needs to be able to decide for themselves where they stand. At any rate, deciding to an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> is not <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> easy choice. It's not something people take lightly, so an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>'re concerned that women are just getting abortions on a whim, they aren't.
Avatar f tn I know i could never give up my baby for adoption. For me the choice was between keeping the baby or having <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span>. I knew abortion was the right code for me and I an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> never had any regrets.
Avatar f tn Does that really sound like a guy that cares for an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> or anyone but himself for that matter. My mom had <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>before</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> she had me. When I was 12 or so she asked an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>whatan> I thought about <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> and I reacted badly which I still do about the subject. She burst into tears and I knew, I thought I was dreaming and never thought my wonderful mother could kill her tiny baby. I could not bring myself to comfort her after she told me and I never looked at her the same.
Avatar f tn My boyfriend and I an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> been together for 5 1/2 years and we planned on having a baby well at least that's an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>whatan> he was saying to me while we were having <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sex</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>>. and saying how he wanted to get me pregnant <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>before</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> joining the air force. Its very frustrating for me right now because my boyfriend is now begging me to get an abortion and saying the most negative things...calling me a ****, a *****, and every name in the book and continuously telling me how much he wants an abortion.
Avatar n tn I agree that we do not need to say hurtful things to anyone. However, having <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> does raise a concern for several people. Many of us either know firsthand or an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> heard of the effects of it, and it's important for us to feel free to express our concerns and beliefs.
Avatar n tn I too feel that I am not ready, however I knew the risk of having an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>unprotectedan> <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sex</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>>. To an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> on the grounds of an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r boyfriend is abusive Makes it sound like an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> need a dan style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan>ferent boyfriend. Or he has things he needs to work on. an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> guys should really talk. No relationship works without communication. Does he know of an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r plans? and chances are an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> he doesn't and an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> do the abortion anyway... an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r relationship will most likely be over, especially with him being excited.
Avatar n tn an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> NO IDEA an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>whatan> I'M GOING THROUGH anD HOW BAD IT HURTS ME ALREADY TO EVEN THINK OF HAVING <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span>. MY DR. HAS ME ON anTI-DEPRESSanTS BECAUSE I an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> BEEN SUICIDAL SINCE THE DEATH OF MY MOTHER. THEY'RE NOT HELPING MUCH. IT ALSO DOESN'T HELP FOR PEOPLE TO BE SO JUDGMENTAL OF ME WHEN I AM IN NEED OF SOME ONE TO TALK TO WHO Can TRY anD UNDERSTanD.
Avatar f tn We an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> and always will offer advice and consolation to women contemplating or having had <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span>. While there are a few people who an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> said things they shouldn't it is always dealt with by myself or a MedHelp staff member. an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>'re throwing stones at everyone here when no one has even said anything. sweetheart856 - I am so very sorry that an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>'re going through this! We all make mistakes and live to regret things. an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>rs is a very tragic story and deeply self-wounding.
Avatar f tn from experience from <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> and being in labour for 6 hours and seeing people come and go with the <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> pill. an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> start to bleed and an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> cramps within an hour. Thats a fact... and an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> NEVER take four pills. EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go to the hosp and say exactly an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>whatan> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> just said to us, they might be able to save an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r baby.
Avatar f tn Don't kill the baby sweetie we all go through tough moments and struggled pain and hurt ut in lan style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan>e an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> gotta be strong because an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> end up having <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> its going to hunt an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> down every day. The man that got an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> pregnant is a JERK he's wrong for walking away from the baby and an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>, listen sweetheart keeping this baby will be the best choice an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> made yea an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> might be struggling now but one day an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> will get out of this situation. an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> will make it an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>'ll be a wonderful mother an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> know.
1355431 tn?1369978906 I felt angry inside when I read a post about someone having <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> a couple weeks ago and asking could I be pregnant again. I realize its every womans choice but for some reason it really upset me. I hate to feel this way, I am normaly such a understanding person. I guess it could just be because I an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> had so many pregnancy losses and I know plenty of wonderful woman who cant become pregnant. Just makes me sad :( Sorry an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>ifan> this journal entry offended anyone, just needed to vent.
Avatar n tn ok i had <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> october 5th and i had <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sex</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> 3 times a week and a half after that...its nov. 9th and i still an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean>n't had a period they told me my period would come in 4-6 weeks or on my normal period schedule..i an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> been having various signs of pregnancy..i took a test and it was positive but my doctor told me it could be positive because i could still an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> high hcg levels...so my question is do an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> think i could pregnant again???
Avatar f tn Hi. I'm sorry an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> are having regrets. I've never had <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> but an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> had miscarriages and a D&C last year. It took me almost a year to get pregnant again. Not b/c of any problems but b/c I wasn't ready. I think an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> are supposed to wait at least 6 weeks after having that procedure done an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>beforean> having an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sexan> and/or trying to conceive. My doctor told me to wait 6 weeks for an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sexan> and to wait 12 weeks to try to conceive.
Avatar f tn an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> need to be on BIRTH CONTROL. There is no reason for an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> to be having an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>unprotectedan> <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sex</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> after <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span>. Also an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> should probably an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> waited 6 weeks at least to an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sexan> again after an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r procedure, because an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> could an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> an infection now due to bacteria introduced into an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r uterus during an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sexan>. Go see a doctor, and for gods sake be an adult and get on some birth control. an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> posted in the Pregnancy 18-34 forum, and many women there are praying for a baby...
Avatar f tn so this was actually a timetravel post from a forum member in the not so far (2009) future, that jumped back in cyberspace It should warn us
Avatar f tn I am currently pregnant and i am choosing to an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span>...i was preg about 6months ago and i aborted that one at the fathers request...this time it is my decision...i know i am being irresponsible by having an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>unprotectedan> an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sexan> so i will be on bc from here on out, but i was wondering an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>whatan> are the risk of me having abortions back to back like that?
Avatar n tn i want to tell his parents that i an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> undergone <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> and he has done <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sex</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> many times with me?is it possibe to prove this?please reply.
Avatar m tn From an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>whatan> I gathered from the manufacturers website an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan>r girlfriend should an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> taken the abortion pills an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>beforean> 63 days gestation. The fact that she was further along than that may an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> caused complications. an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> should really get her to a doctor.
Avatar f tn 8 weeks later i got <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>abortion</span> and on the day i was fine it was a few weeks later i cracked and broke down everyday. everytime i saw my boyfriend i could see a baby and it killed me an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>whatan> i did! my boyfriend fully supported my decision. 6 months later i found out i was pregnant again. i was so angry at myself and sad i couldnt function. i didnt tell my boyfriend because i didnt want him being upset or worrying about me.
Avatar f tn Now I am with someone who is good to me. We want to an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> a baby (even though I am not sure I deserve one) and an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> been having an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>unprotectedan> <sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span> style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>sex</sp<span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>an</span>> for two years and we an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>havean> not even had a scare?! Question: Does having more than one abortion make an style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>youan> less likely to conceive? My third abortion, I had some minor complications and turned out I was more far along than the doctor orignally thought.