Remembering my hemorrhoid, I clenched up pretty tight not letting her stick any fingers in, but there was some play around the exterior. She may have got half a fingernail
in. After this, I put on a robe, went back to the room, put on a condom and we had sex. Missionary, then her on top. I tried to refrain from any hip to hip contact, but that's nearly impossible.
Aside from the enormous amount of guilt and shame from participating in this activity, I've managed to catch something.