Dear Redhat1,
Having read your concerns, I do not see red flags to suspect an
eating disorder. Your daughters current weight can be normal for her height. The fact that she has her period and recent exam/labs suggests her body is functioning well. She sounds like she’s fully engaged in her life with a job, looking for a new one, dating a nice guy, seems happy, etc. A cavity and dry heaves is not high suspect.
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