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Avatar m tn I need to share my story and hopefully get some suggestions and support and wisdom out there. I recently turned 50. I my early 40's I suffered a series of losses in a short period of time - lost my dad, my mom, best friend from college, my sister had three brain tumors (3 separate operations and survived) my father in law, miscarriage, financial, etc. I never grieved all these losses, just pushed it inside so I could function. I wound up drinking to get thru the pain and became alcoholic.
620877 tn?1282764097 Because you were married for 10 years, you can take your social security retirement based on your husband's earnings record. Check that out BEFORE you talk to anyone from Social Security. It's amazing how many different phony reasons their employees can give you over the phone about why you are not entitled to do this (even though, by law you are entitled). I have just gone through this myself so I know.
10707428 tn?1415569790 when you have this child even during a separation your ex will have to pay not only child support but spousal support from the sounds of it to insure you are able total care of this baby. id seek legal advice to confirm all this but i think as much as getting the hell out of there seems appealing it could back fire on once divorce proceedings start. and im assuming you have your dr. or midwife where you live now. i wouldn't interrupt your prenatal care now.
798548 tn?1237503653 hi all, i am considering going to the chiari center in long island, i am so tired of the doctors here not knowing much about chiari and related conditions. they do not even realize all the symptoms that come with chiari. i have had a decompression that took away symptoms for a few months but now they are all back and have more symptoms i am dealing with also. everytime i see another doctor they put me on another med for pain, headaches, nerve pain etc.
Avatar n tn It took years but myhealth has been better and Im getting alimony before the divorce has taken place. You can get alimony (maintenance support) once you move out. You may have to petition the court or he might willingly give it to you once you serve him with divorce papers. He will not want to go to court to give you the alimony so he might give it to you. I understand your health problems as I had panic too, but its all gone since I left him.
Avatar f tn During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.
Avatar n tn looking for people on long island new york for support group?
Avatar f tn Girl your a doll! Thanks so so much for clearing everything up, that's one big thing that was stressing me. He mentioned again during an argument that it's "too easy" to take my son away from me. Now that I've read what you said there's no way he can. Theres nothing he can use against me based on what you said. Visitation rights I don't mind and will allow as long as he has his **** together.
Avatar n tn A few days ago I went out with some friends and drank way to much, 2 shots of Tequila and 2 long island Ice Teas. This is alot for me and I was super sick. Two days later 2 bruises showed up, one on the top of my thigh and the other on my inner arm. I asked the people I was with and I did not injure these areas at all. The bruises are not purple they are just very dark small patches. I am going to the doctor however I wanted to know if anyone else has experienced this before.
Avatar f tn Find your inner strength and come out fighting!! It is very hard and you will want to give up, but find your support and hang on tight to them. Surrond yourself with people that will cheer you on and not bring you more stress!! Like said above, Copaxone should be able to finacially help. God Bless and take care!!
Avatar f tn That's good to hear that he is paying child support, so that can't be an issue holding up the divorce then. Maybe the alimony situation is unresolved? I don't understand how you think if he can't see or talk to his kids now, that that will change after the divorce? Maybe your fiancé needs to put that inn order in the divorce, that he have visitation rights to his children, that's if he wants to keep up a good relationship with them.
Avatar n tn boyfriend is legally separated and actually finally hoping to finalize the divorce this week. He too is paying a ton of alimony and child support as well as left the ex the house and the contents in it. His ex also tried to use the kids against him to get extra money as he was nothing but a meal ticket to her. Luckily he has a pretty decent job so he's not exactly penniless but she definitely gets more than he brings home.
Avatar f tn Hello & welcome. You need support to help sustain your recovery. No man is an island. You need those around you who will hold you up. Hold you accountable. What program did you join? Going to therapy, church, support groups, (AA, celebrate recovery) is essential to maintain sobriety. When you stopped pills did you stay clean for awhile before you started drinkung? Being in active addiction you just switched drugs. There is healing. There is freedom from the bondage of drugs.
Avatar n tn In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc. but do yourself a favor and when they set child support immediately go to your child support office and have all checks go through state that way he and you is protected.
2074425 tn?1339178443 On ur first question it definitely is possible to get divorced on the phone as long as he provided them with the address to have the divorce decree sent to. My husband did all their correspondence for his divorce thru the mail. The child support thing I'm going tell u like I was explained, it doesn't natter how much he makes those kids will be taken care of and if she isn't wrkn that's more than fair to support his kids.
Avatar m tn It has been about 10 months now and I still get over the eevnts )seperation/divorce and all the ramifications that go along with it. I never wanted this and being the recipient of the divorce makes it so much harder. I am deperessed and lack confidence. It doesn't seem to get better, I try to trick myself sometimes, but it doesn't always work. The bottom line is that I still love my wife (ex) very much.
Avatar f tn I'm doing child support and visitations for the protection of the child, because who knows in the long run we could get into a fight and no longer support her and ect. I would do it just for the child sake so it's not hurting her in the long run and you aren't doing it out of spit and revenge.
Avatar f tn My husband and I separated in July because I discovered his affair. He said he hasn't loved for a long time and doesn't regret what he's done . I still love him and as you can imagine I am devastated. I'm usually hypo manic and hen I swing to sadness. But this has sent me into a deep dark hole. I'm just curious about other stories from people who have gone through divorce.
Avatar f tn I do know that in the state of Florida if you're married, your baby gets your husbands last name.. But! If you can prove you've been separated then it may change the circumstances a little. Have you filed for a divorce and it's in motion?
Avatar m tn I have a few Major Concerns. Im 31m From Long Island NY. Im Married with a Child. I dont get Sex from My wife so iv been doing things that make me feel guilty but have now began counceling alone and with my wife to fix our sex life and my other problems. About 3.5 months ago i began stoping at the local park and ride and Recieved and only recieved oral sex from eather married bi men or single gay men this happned about 5 times unprotected up to about the 3 month point from my last hiv test.
Avatar f tn I just returned from TCI on Long Island and had an extensive appointment with Dr. Bolognese there. I, too, am looking at surgery at sometime in the future (depending upon the outcome of a few more tests I need). He advised me that I would be in the ICU for a couple of days, then to a regular room for 3-4 days. After that, I would need to arrange for accommodations nearby for about 1 week.
Avatar f tn I'm 39+2 days pregnant and need all the emotional support i can get. The pregnancy hasnt been easy to this day because i m going through a divorce while taking care of a two year old and no help (emotional and financial) from the father. Please pray for me so i can get through this !!!!
Avatar n tn ) Thats my dream place to live Im on long island now but it gets toooo cold florida is awesome!!