divorce papers to file

I've got the divorce papers filled out, I just need him to agree to sign them, because I would like to file them as jointly because I heard it goes more smoothly than filing single. What would be the best most calm way to approach him to sign the papers as joint. I was thinking about having my parents and his sit down with us to have him sign them. To keep a calm environment. Since I'm afraid he'll lash out and refuse to sign the papers or tear them up.

You may be able to file but not go to court until after baby is here. In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc. but do yourself a favor and when they set child support immediately go to your child support office and have all checks go through state that way he and you is protected.

I have the divorce papers in hand. My husband will be coming over to talk tonight. Where I will be laying down the law. I want to work thru this because I do love him And he is good to me. Other than the fact the yard cheated on me with a icky stripper.. things wont be there same. But I'm willing to try. For the kids if nothing else.. he will be tested for every std under the sun ( even those I have 2 that I was honest about)...

I've asked him a number of times to leave but he doesn't want to. What am I supposed to do?

How expensive is that? To file your own papers? I guess my daughters hubby filed, he has help from mom. She has to respond but cannot get help anywhere, and I just do not have that kind of cash to just give her. She was printing out paperwork off the court website. They have no property and already live separately bot share the kids. He wants child support, her to foot half the bills and carry insurance on the kids. He was the principal breadwinner when they were together. Just an awful mess.

I have neuro appt on Monday morning, just need to get well enough to get there (am in VA need to get to AL) will have a stack of ER papers for him. Biogen will want me to file another report with FDA, of course, but I'm already sector scanning for an alternative DMD or even considering a holiday from everything. I have a pacemaker replacement outpatient surgery next month so don't need to go thru this next month too!

ve decided to separate n live in separate rooms if anything u r not together anymore n I do believe that u should file for divorce n move in with ur new bf he now needs to step up n be a man n take care of u n this baby on the way n with ur children work out a custody agreement, assets between u n ex I honestly think it will out it may not be an ideal road n seem scary n hard but at least it's right n u can be happy it's 7 yrs how much longer r u willing to live unhappily for???

so now my unborn child has no father and I have to file divorce papers again. I have to say..this is the worse pregnancy ever. Aside from that I am a high risk pregnancy due to having severe panic disorder...which I have been hospitalized for during my pregnancy. .and then I get this news..also aside from getting evicted and having to be out a week before im due. I feel very lost. .very alone...and feel as if im going crazy.

t say anything about domestic violence, but that is one of the reasons why they discourage divorce while pregnant...most women and are killed when trying to leave/end the relationship. If you feel endangered wait for the sake of your children and seek help within your community.

But anyways I filed for divorce and served him the papers but now it’s like I don’t know what to feel. Like I’m glad to be getting a divorce but now i don’t know what to feel about him. Do I love him as a friend or what? I don’t know. Anyway if someone went through something similar some advice would be great. Thank you.

Well your username needs to be changed from "marijuana19" for starters. I'm assuming you're 19 years old and an avid user of a drug that is not yet legal in many states...I was married and pregnant at 18. Husband did drugs, I didn't. So I kicked him out, I wasn't having that around my kid. Divorce took a year because he refused to sign any papers. I was divorced at 19. Now I'm happily married to my best friend, but it took a lot of growing up...

Please know I only wish you the best.. It's obvious you want to get clean and it seems you are well on your way there. You've been on a very high dose of opiates from what I remember in your previous posts. Professional help would of made it easier for you in my opinoin..but if you stay determined, this can be done. I don't know the details of your marriage and I don't need to. BUT..I don't think it to be wise to tackle a divorce why you are going through this.

When I was young I used to do everything for him. I never wanted him to leave me all alone to be a single teen mother so I always kept peace. Even when he was wrong. Although I went to bed many nights crying myself to sleep. So as time went on we kinda both grew up and things were good for the most part up until about 4 years ago. I started to realize that my husband was taking lortabs, xanex, and drinking prescribed cough meds.

m still legally married to someone else and he refusing to file for divorce. I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.

She said she has the divorce papers and wants him to sign them without taking them to a translator first he told her that he would sign them but he doesnt speak or read english yet..and she wont give the papers to him now that im pregnant..we have been talking to my lawyer about filling and running it in the papers but the only days he has off the lawyers office is closed..i was told we could pull the papers up our selves and have them ran in the paper and filled..

2 days pregnant with my second son and I have a 16 month old. My husband just told me that he wants to file for divorce again (we went down this route nearly a year ago) and I think it's definite this time. I'm having a hard time with trying to be okay because he's choosing the worse time to do this, but I'm trying. I was wondering if there are any other moms out there who have had this experience before and what they did to try and just keep positive.

go to pdf-to-jpg.com to put in your adobe file which is a PDF then you can transfer it to a jpg, and then store it on your computer then load it to medhelp. Cheers!

Well if you do decide to tell her then just prepare yourself for the worst on his family's part...that way it should be no surprise. At least you know when she's with her grandma she is at least safe. Also I got to thinking, I'm almost positive when I filled out my divorce papers there was a question in there that asked if I was pregnant. Hopefully once you talk to legal aid you can have more clear answers.

First...thank you ladies for all the feedback. Update: I did tell my lawyer that I'm pregnant and that it's not my soon to be ex husbands. My lawyer wrote up the settlement and cleverly noted that I'm pregnant ...not with his child and in a way that my ex won't know that I'm expecting. It's legal and my ex won't find out through the divorce papers or at all if I can help it. I did all that worrying for nothing and you all are great for the support!!!

Sam, you make some great points. Yes, it's true that women file for divorce more than men. I think it's b/c men and women have different expectations of marriage. Also, men will take longer to file for divorce so women have to do it. It's not that the men don't want the divorce, some men just don't want to be bothered with the process of a divorce. Maybe men see it as a big failure while women just want to move on with their life?

Marajean, so you're saying if I move before he would file for divorce then they can't make me move back to cali?? I am 99.9 percent sure I am the one who would be filing anyway. If he gets nuts I see myself just slowly packing up my stuff, hiding it here n there then one day just up and leaving. Wouldn't that be considered kidnapping though?

is he at least saying he is going to help, or making any sign that he is going to help once the baby gets here?

It took him about a year of fighting to convice her to give him the divorce papers. However he got married in Nevada his ex is there along with his two kids he had with her. We live in Minnesota and he couldn't make it to the court house there to get divorced so they held a court hearing over the phone. Is it possible to get divorced over there phone because we think she hired someone to call him pretending to be a judge.

The baby wont have papers like u......u xan file for papers since u are an amerixan citizen i had to do the same for my son but in mexico...

Dear kind ladies, wld b grateful for ur opinion. Husband n i are married for 3 months. I am 9 weeks pregnant. After wedding n honeymoon we live separately, like 30 hrs flight away cos he works in different part of d world, so we haven't even started livin as a couple. Had a big fight caused by same old trust issue that's bn haunting us for yrs, and nw we're thinking of a divorce.

I am getting my Mirena (IUD) removed the day before he comes home, because I am having issues with it. He says he wants to file for a divorce with his wife and try to conceive with me when he comes home at the end of this week. Is it too soon? Possibly too much stress? I've been engaged to him for a few months. How long after the Mirena is removed can I get pregnant? Is it common for someone with endometriosis to get pregnant?

t Stop Now Then He Has No Intention Of Doing So Or He Would HaveDone It When You First Ask Him Not To. Id Say Talk To Him About Your Concern And Let Him Know You Are Considering Divorce And See Where It Goes From There! Of He Doesn't Respect You And Your Baby Enough Not To Do It Now Then He Won't Later And You Don't Need That And Your Baby Don't Need To Be Around That And All The Fighting It Causes...

A wk or so ago I posted that I'm in the process of getting a divorce and my current bf is my baby's father. My lawyer advised that he would have to put in my divorce papers that I'm pregnant but I didn't want my ex to find out or he won't be cooperative....to make this short, I asked if I should get another lawyers opinion and the majority response was yes so I did and my new lawyer didn't even ask if I was currently pregnant so I didn't say anything.

I had a similar issue where I wasn't technically divorced yet when I got pregnant, at the hospital they told me my husband would have to come sign papers before we could leave saying he knew it wasn't his baby so my son could take my boyfriends last name!

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