divorce laws in ny

jolleyman is right, we are in trouble, i've been in afghanistan for the last 2 mnths, its not getting better, an this happened in ny. The current legal system will not be of any help in the long run, money dictates whose inoccent an guilty. the system is no longer for justice it doesnt exist. Look at all the people who have made billions in wallstreet, turns out most of them were stealing it.

Ny in laws are great we get along good. I always thought they were over baring but after being around fir a few years I relized they just wantd ti help.

Sounds horrible for you... in- laws always think they know best.... my ex- in-laws would have Been exactly like yours.... glad I got out when I did. You probably really need to get a wriggle in and Find your own place (easier said than done) but they won't change cause they don't think Their in the wrong.. My sister was a child minder a few years ago and had my brothers little girl... but she though She could just do what she wanted ....

What I keep reading in what you are writing that bothers me is NOT what your mother in law is doing but in how your husband handles her and you both. He is very --- Well, OVER protective of her. I'm a mother and I have sons. I am also a wife. It is right for you and your husband to be a unit. Parents are secondary outside of your marital union. If you feel your husband is leaving you too often to go there---- I think that is a valid concern if it is indeed excessive.

I live with her tho .. I have been trying to avoid her like when she's in one room I won't go in there till she leaves or if she comes by me I won't make eye contact ..

bin deeplt down depressed am stuck in ny wife dont wanna get out ny. kids are 27 23 21 im gettin back to work now after long comp back injury have to switch jobs to less physically demanding longislands a rat race to much pressure would give all rights to the house she still wont move..

Im just really angry just thinkin does ny one else feel this way that the in laws involve too much in your pregnancy and your house life. They decide what colour cusions u shud hv or wt colour or type of house ornaments you shud hv.. im 19 weeks and 3 days pregnant and I hv my scan on monday all my inlaws hv on ther head is go find out if its girl or boy. We dont want to find out we want to keep it suprise but I feel they just tk over evrything..

I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.

well if your married in most countries you are entitled to half of everything he owns.... so you dont have nothing. if he kicked you out of the home while your pregnant that only proves he is an incapable and uncaring parent since his child currently resides in you. And generally most courts pick the mother to be the primary care giver, unless the mother is completely incapable.

I have been wanting to leave my husband for several months now. And he is on to me that I'm seeing someone. Which I have been. But every time I tell him I don't want to be with him anymore, he forces our love for me to love him and I don't. I love him in a caring way but not an intimate way. Hes a type of person who gets hurt very easily, and I want to know how bad of an idea would it be if I told him I had been seeing someone for 7 months?....

I work in NJ and live in NY. For me they only cover my ultrasound monitoring and blood work. That is it. So say the least i have spent thousands of dollars in the past two years.

The problem is about EXPECTATIONS!! We expect too much from our in laws at the time of pregnancy. We want them to care us like our mother n father but we have to remember they are our in laws not our real parents. Our parents gave so much love to us so we expect same from others. I used to feel same when I am still 35 weeks pregnant but now I am used to it and expect less from my MIL..

In the divorce paperwork they will set visitation. Idk what the laws are where you are but here in KY you can not file for divorce until the child is born. You can file for legal separation but that is it. I would go ahead and call a lawyers and see what the rules are in your area. You may be able to file but not go to court until after baby is here. In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc.

i have no proof on that . i cant divorce on susspect . i am obligatory live in this situation. he want childrens to mask his behaviour in front of the society and to satisfy his mother.

Luckily my x n I are n agreement over everything in our divorce and we are pushing the divorce before i start showing on the advice of a mutual attorney friend. Each state has different laws regarding the situation. Good luck.

Girl in laws will always be like that! Some in laws are just too much and other are just awesome. Uhh my mil is just a pain in the bootty lol. I mentioned her I might have a c section im high risk and she comes with oh that's why u have to walk more and do exercises. Bla bla bla she gets in my nerves!!

I just went through this in WI. I had filled papers last February for a divorce. He and his lawyer dragged it out. In December I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriends that lived with me. My judge ordered a guardian ad lietam and all three of us had to testify at the trial to who the father of the child was. However the judge could have ordered a DNA test to be done because the child was presumed my ex husband's by law.

my boyfriend whos getting a divorce in march comes from a very rich family whos crazy about having kids on their side. my boyfriends mother put it in her sons head to divorce his wife and take their son. the mother has no contact with the kid anymore. my boyfriend got his wife into drugs and thats what they hold agaisnt her. i dont get along with my boyfriends parents at all because they think im a gold digger.

So we planned to start a family and I got conceived in the 4th month after my marriage. Everything was fine and my in-laws took extreme care of me and were happy. But in my 4th month of pregnancy, they all of a sudden asked me if I know the sex of the baby in my womb and they asked me to go to some small hospitals and check it. I didnt understand why they were saying so. But I didnt do it.

I helped decorate my sister in laws baby shower and I bought most of the stuff at the dollar store. Of course I bought one of each first to see if she liked it all...luckily she did. So you could try there. Wal-Mart had some cute stuff too. A little bit more money if you buying a big quantity of things. Hopefully you find some you like.

I am 14 wks and still haven't told my in laws that I'm pregnant again. I see them every day bc i pick up their other granddaughter from the bus stop with my girl and take her to their house.I think they know because my body had started changing already and I'm trying to hide it but idk. Me and the hubs arent an item but i feel like we should tell them together.

My husband and I told my in-laws together, that's how he wanted it. Maybe you can ask your husband if he has a special way he would like to tell them? Good luck and best wishes!

So, my in laws are going on a trip in early May, and when my husband was on the phone with his mom he said I could potentially go into labor. To which she replied, no, my baby is going to wait for me. I could hear her as he was just next to me. I am very hormonal, but I did not like this comment at all, and it hurt to be honest. I hope that was a fluke and she won't say anything like this ever again. If it were to happen, I'm not sure what would be an appropriate reaction.

So I had like 6 people in the waiting room and my sister was the lucky number two I picked to come in with us. So keep in mind they might now even be aloud in.

And we are already fighting because i dont want his parents at the hospital at all after birth. I want to relax. Im not close to them and i feel that the time in the hospital should be for the household members to bond only. He wants them there. I want noone there except him and my children.

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