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My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?

Then, two days ago, out of the blue, he WANTS A DIVORCE! He is my LIFE! I have been through hell to stay with him, love him, and support him, and now he is throwing us away! just like that! What can I possibly do???!!! He says he still loves me, but wants to split!?

So my husband is on my last nerve! I'm done with it we've been together since February 21, 2011 got married February 25, 2013. All he does is blame everything on me constantly picking fights! He's always right and I'm wrong Im done with it all, idk what to do at this point besides divorce, but then what happens after divorce???? We have a 1 year old and I'm 17+1 with our 2nd what happens in court about custody?? Anyone been through this??

While in the hospital I obtained a PPO and then filed for a divorce. I have not seen him in 7 months. I am doing pretty well but often have days where I wonder if I made a big mistake. I miss him a lot, wonder how he is, and want to talk with him. Is this a normal part of recovery after an event like this?

He soild his underpants and then wiped it on the sofa, my question is- is this possibly related to the divorce or mabey something more??? Please help!!!!

I do know you are eligible for Cobra (36 months I think) under his insurance at work. It is expensive but you would get a rate given to all their employees ..better than nothing. If he makes the big $$$$ and you have been married more than ten years, it is possible that he could be made to pay for the Cobra. Ask your lawyer about it.

During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.

I know relatively nothing about it, as i was always told i am Bipolar. I will be going through a divorce,as i find it difficult to live with an addict as i am in recovery myself. I'm beside myself and am wondering what meds they will out me on or what i should suggest. I will not get to see my doctor until the 29 for meds, and i have high anxiety and feel like i'm eady to snap. Emotionall and financially tapped, i need some kind of support.

t work and she is the bread winner and in the past i used drugs to hide my pain and my pride. I only straighten up when she threatens divorce. Then I see what I have done. I ask her to point it out to me and she's tired of doing that. She doesn't have a life.

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After CABGx3 I was discharged from the Hospital after 36 hours with NO instructions to me or my wife for post-op care at home. I had a very difficult recovery lasting over one year. I would like to hear from others who have had CABG about the length of their hospital stay and post discharge care.

Howdy- I'm on day13 without any vicodin/opiates. I had conquered a tramadol habit back in 07' only to replace it with a heavy addiction to vicodin. 8-10/day (.500's) (something I had abused for many years prior) Obviously the first week sucked- I knew it, expected it, dreaded it and withstood it. By day 5-7 I started feeling really good. By day 10, I crashed. This past weekend was horrible. Dreadful depression, and no energy. I had been prescribed klonidine for the anxiety.

I found out last night, that my gf cheated on me with her soon-to-be-ex-husband. I met her back in early March, just AFTER she'd filed for divorce (I just tell you that, so you'll know that legally, our relationship is "legit"), and we hit it off like nobody's business. She's in recovery, from RX pain-meds, as am I, and we "get" each other on a level that I didn't think possible.

So my husband and I have been seperated since June (almost my entire pregnancy) and he also filed for divorce. Its's been a very messy situation and he has caused a lot of unnecessary drama and stress to my pregnancy. He's made a kinds of allegations of mw cheating to me being abusive to him and our 2 yr old son. All of this really sycks because I am definitely considered "high risk pregnancy" which he knows but just simply doesn't care.

You always hear that part of recovery is giving back. Taking the time to encourage a stranger going through something you did once, knowing how important it is for them to have an outlet and support as you needed. I hope more who have been there or loved someone who has gone through addiction will contribute. It was part of my recovery. Do you think it is important to give back or connect in your process and life living in recovery?

5 months after I was gone that she needed a total hysterectomy. I wanted to be there for the surgery and a few days for recovery...unable to due to location etc. Surgery completed and then I noticed a major change......even from a very long distance away. She was with relatives as it was safe during my 1 year absence. We were close, not intimate, during a very brief vacation when I went home. I heard from her that she felt ok after the surgery but hormones and feelings were weird.

Recovery care is not discussed nearly as often as it should be on here .Once you have gone threw the physical withdrawal its time to get recovery care ...Getting clean is the easy part staying clean is the hard part ..The forum is GREAT but it is NOT recovery care it will not keep you clean .The only one that can keep you clean is ourselves and the program we get ourselves on to stay that way ...

Thanks Guys, i love all the support on here. I am doing good, but for sure mentally it is a challenge. I am still wishing i could use and really wish that would go away. Does it ever go away? Next week when i go back to the counselor, we will work on the 12 step, i heard that's a bunch of BS is that true as well?

he maintains almost no contact with me as he basically disowned me after the divorce, even though during their eight year marriage, he basically adopted me. It was a very painful reality to face. But like I said, he remembers very little of it now, and he still drinks. He and my mom had a daughter together, and he is a wonderful dad to her, even now.

I completely understand your thinking. I felt the same way, especially going to meetings downtown near work. I worked a position for years where I didn't want everyone to know I have a drug and alcohol problem. But one mind-set I always kept with me in the early days of getting clean was the fact that I was finally on the recovering side of the fence, part of the solution not the disease.

i filed for divorce and im due in 3 weeks. Big ol mess.

Girl we never know a man until we marry him. That's all I can say. If I could I would totally divorce my husband but the way we right we would be tangled up in court forever . I'd take a minute to think on it and maybe even present it to your husband that hey, motherfricker, you are about to push me into a divorce. I told my husband I wanted a divorce and since then he's been on his best behavior.

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