divorce advice revenge

she is a beautiful woman but i am failing to bring my self to make love to her...now she has started suspecting me of revenge cheating all because i stop to say hi to a female work mate. i just need advise, if i was to cheat would it ease my pain, i feel like a beta male for accepting the child and staying with my wife. maybe sleeping with other women will make me feel like an Alfa male again.

I'm sorry to hear this. Sounds like you are really hurting. It must be extremely difficult and hard on you especially with stress and hormones of pregnancy. Have you tried calmly confronting him about how you feel? A calm, non-accusational conversation may get him to open up..and explain himself, how he feels, and his actions. Hope you find peace with him!

Grace replied to you with some advice that I think will be helpful. I am sorry to her your ex-bf cheated on you. It sucks to no end I know. I had an ex-wife who decided to bring 5 males into our bedroom one day and caught her after I decided to come home to get a change of clothes to meet a client at their office. (I wore jeans to work most days unless I was going out in the field and then I wore dress clothes).

t really talk to her about it I just decided to get revenge.. So I took out one of my old friends and I held her hand in a high school football game and she got upset and asked me why I did it and I said I got revenge on what she did to me. so is that right???

My wife now feels the only way she can move forward is if she revenge cheats if not she wants a divorce of which I have said no . We are due to see a counsellor soon. Is there any hope for us?

No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage? Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.

My husband kicked me out yesterday. He said he wants a divorce because he doesnt love me anymore. This is all so sudden, and a shock to me, because i thought we had a great marriage. My question is, i want to move outside the country, im 7 months. My question is can i fly on plane across the ocean when im 7 months? Can he sue me for kidnapping his child even though he's not born yet?

Thanks everyone for the advice. We live in Wisconsin. We've been married 23 years with lots of up and downs. He is also a control freak and will try to intimidate me. Tonight he told me that I stepped out of bounds he would drop me from his open enrollment for group Insurance.

s shelter for a week came back things got better for a while got married then he acting like a **** again! Anyone have any advice about divorce and child custody that's been through this?

m still legally married to someone else and he refusing to file for divorce. I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.

for the anger you are feeling just remember this Bob success is the best revenge. You should be angry enough to want that kind of revenge Bob. Feel that anger and turn it into sweet success. I have faith in you and when you don't have faith in yourself remember that someone out there in this world has faith in you and pull your strength from that faith. It never hurts to have people believe in you.

My husband cheated on me and we are in the process of a divorce. He had been the only man I have ever been with in my entire life! (Since I was 16 but at that time he gave me HPV.) A couple of weeks after he left the house I started going out and I met this 25 year old heterosexual guy that was also married but had recently split up with his wife. We hung out for a couple of days, I visited his home and he seemed pretty put together.

I am 10 weeks pregnant and have been married that long... My husband is not nice to me in the slightest. I know that for the sake of my baby and myself I need to do something but I don't know if I'm scared or what. I have constant anxiety and because of it I have a pain in my side. Has anyone else ever asked for a divorce? How did you do it? I don't know how to approach this and I feel like I'm dying inside.

I have put in my application for divorce and for a goverment apartment, but with goverment helped there is 3 stimpulations (for the divorce). 1. all properties are to be sold and divided evenly (we dont have any property), 2. was something else, and 3. was agreed custody over our duaghter. I sat down and tried talking to him calmly, but I don't see him agreeing on it. I take care of my daughter pretty much on my own (school issues, doctors,.

I have had depression and anxiety since age 18 so dont think its just cause of divorce..not living w husband has brought more peace to my life. but of course divorce the legal part is stressful I have read and read...Dr says maybe I may be bi-polar type 2..along w the anxiety depression which I guess is part of bi-polar 2...so why am I not on seroquel (sp?) also I have been on xanax ( prescribed by family dr) for years since I was early twentys I am 48 now) ..

Six months ago, I told him that I wanted a divorce, and he told me that he would do anything to keep our marriage intact, so we went to counseling. The verbal abuse stopped, but the control didn't. I have 2 daughters, one is a teenager and one is in her early 20s, and they both live with us. He is also very controlling with them. Three weeks ago, I told him that I could no longer try to work on our marriage, that I didn't love him like a husband anymore, and that I wanted a divorce.

and I want to thank you all for your advice cause I have no friends or much of a family who wants me to forgive her again which I told my parents they would never see me talk to that thing again in life.I just feel that I don't need anyone sister or not in my life anymore.But for my question is for him, everytime I see him and he apologizes I get in revenge mode and get every dime I can from him and what ever else I can I want to burn them so bad I see it in my sleep.

45 days prior to me returning to the states at the end of the contract she filed for divorce and never even talked with me about it. I did not know until paperwork was in hand 2 weeks after it was filed in the court. I returned to the states and I am living apart from the family. There was no communication for over 4 weeks all went through attorneys while I stood with my jaw on the ground wondering what happened.

To me it seems theres a bigger underlying issue and both of u need to sit down and camly talk about how u both feel and why u feel this way and how u both can make things work. Dont jump into wanting divorce just yet because wanting a divorce might be because of ur hormones. And frankly thats the easy way out. Both of you need to work on this relationship and also compromise.

my husband started drinking heavily and we used to fight alot he used to get agressive and try to start arguments and of course the angrier i got the more heated the fights would get but it was only on his days off and at home i never really thought about separation or divorce because he was still providing even though he drank and we would fight nonstop he never stopped being responsible with the bills and i think that unless a man is cheating anything can be fixed i know its different when yo

Jeliousy hun that might have been all he wanted honestly make he used u to make her jelious and used u as revenge u need to *** him back and talk to him about all this and get the truth sorry to hear the truth but that's what it sounds lik

I should probably seek a therapy but thought I'd see if I'd get people perhaps that feel the same way. I'm going through a really difficult time I'm 13weeks and 5 days pregnant which I'm really excited about however I'm 21 years old and got married beginning of December and feel that I rushed into a realshionship and marriage really fast. And got pregnant all to quick.

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