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I am in the process of talking to a lawyer to divorce my husband. We've been separated for about 8 months, I found out after being with him almost 10yrs that he has a thing for young call girls. I've moved on to another relationship and I'm 19w 5d. My lawyer is telling me that be has to put that I'm pregnant in the divorce papers but I don't think it's any of my ex's business.
I just went through this in WI. I had filled papers last February for a divorce. He and his lawyer dragged it out. In December I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriends that lived with me. My judge ordered a guardian ad lietam and all three of us had to testify at the trial to who the father of the child was. However the judge could have ordered a DNA test to be done because the child was presumed my ex husband's by law.
You should find your own support system first. A place you can live at with people that love you. If he's not nice to you and you've only been married such a short time that doesn't have a positive outlook on things to come. You can move out to a friends house for awhile and tell him you need time apart. And that you're not happy. Once you're in a stable environment, you can think about your next step.
A wk or so ago I posted that I'm in the process of getting a divorce and my current bf is my baby's father. My lawyer advised that he would have to put in my divorce papers that I'm pregnant but I didn't want my ex to find out or he won't be cooperative....to make this short, I asked if I should get another lawyers opinion and the majority response was yes so I did and my new lawyer didn't even ask if I was currently pregnant so I didn't say anything.
If your state has a health benefits exchange that is one option. Not all states have one and the rules differ from state to state. The is the federal exchange but you have to be uninsured for six years. These usually have a premium of $500 a month depending on how large your deductible is. If your income is low enough and you qualify you can apply for medicaid. In some states the benefits under medicaid are not so good and your choice of doctors is limited mostly to Drs.
First...thank you ladies for all the feedback. Update: I did tell my lawyer that I'm pregnant and that it's not my soon to be ex husbands. My lawyer wrote up the settlement and cleverly noted that I'm pregnant ...not with his child and in a way that my ex won't know that I'm expecting. It's legal and my ex won't find out through the divorce papers or at all if I can help it. I did all that worrying for nothing and you all are great for the support!!!
Even if divorce seems to be the emotional answer, also be guided by your lawyer for the legal answer. If you leave, she could claim you abandoned the family. And right now, with you working 60 hours and helping to take care of the kids, you can prove that you did not. So don't give her that.
I agree with the others that she probably has made up her mind. But this does not mean you should roll over.
she has been very quiet and not said anything to either one of us since..am i wrong to want him to divorce her before the baby is born or i dont want his name on the birth certificate until they are divorced???..he wants a divorce too but has little if no time off work to go speak with a lawyer so far..just want to know what people think..
I have struggled with the idea of divorce..I have been raised that GOD hates divorce..so, what do you do in a situation where you have prayed about your marriage and your husband doesn't change? He appears at times to change but its because it will benefit him in some way, and i don't fall for that anymore.
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In your shoes I would talk to my parents about all of this and work to find a legal-aid lawyer who can help you with the divorce. Your daughter is so young that she will not feel the loss of her dad right now, and if the two of you can keep a civil tone going, he might still be a presence in her life as time goes by. Not that it sounds like he much wants to. But in any case, he is obliged to pay support for both children. The law is on your side. Talk to your lawyer, it's important.
Looking to see if anyone has any experience/advice. I am a little over a month clean (feels good to say that) anyways will try and make a long story short. My wife and I abused pills for most of our marriage. We tried multiple times to get clean together but continued to fail. As time passed lies and deception built up beyond repair. We made the decision to separate and pursue divorce. We have 2 kids, a lot of the reason we stuck it out so long.
How to file for divorce in (whatever state). I got one on ebay when i went through my divorce. Between that and searching the internet and talking to people who have been through one...I did my own divorce without a lawyer, didn't cost me a penny and I got what I wanted including support and custody arrangements. I was however fair about it. You might check into one of those books for your friend. Even if they aren't going through a divorce it does cover custody and support.
Me and him broke up as he was drinking and came to see me and my son and i was very angry ( im muslim and religious and he stopped believing) we went home and we broke up again and i said i wanted a divorce and he couldnt keep his dirty hands off the drugs and drink i fell pregnant again as he pressured me a lot and made me feel bad....
My daughter and her hubby are getting a divorce. In this state you gotta come up with 2600.00 minimum to get a divorce attorney. Is it like this all over?
To start off I had enough of my husbands distructive behavior so I got myself a lawyer and started the divorce process. Well I let him kinda move back in but I kept paying my lawyer knowing that he would soon mess up again then I would continue without any problems. I had to confess to my lawyer that I had in fact let him move back in but I had already made him leave again.
Two wrongs are not said to make a right, I know it might make you feel good for a moment to think about being revengeful but don't make a mess for yourself. Right now, you have a strong advantage in a divorce, your lawyer can subpoena his phone records and all. Keep it so you have nothing to hide if he decides to do the same. Getting the best deal in a divorce is the best revenge.
Our son was 5 when we got a divorce (that he wanted). I wanted more than anything for him to be a part of our children's life. My son knew him as dad for 5 years. After he sent up back to our home state he stayed in another state. He moved closer to us but then moved back to AK really recently. In the past 2 and 1/2 years he has seen his kids 3 times.
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