divorce advice for women in california

I may sound crazy by venting on here but I've been with my husband since I was 18 I am now 29 and I'm expecting our 5th child and I'm so ready for a divorce I feel like I hate him now he's so mean to me he's 40 and he's like a grumpy old man. I'm overly confident that I can take care of my children on my own and be much happier doing it. The state of California won't let me surve him with papers until I have the baby but I'm ready now.

I know divorce is awful. I'm not married yet because I'm scared of marrying too quick and it ending in divorce. I do not ever want to experience that. But when it gets to the point of hurting you, your spirit, and it's emotionally exhausting...you have to put yourself and your children first. It will be okay love, stay strong and take deep breaths. It will all work out.

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I just went through this in WI. I had filled papers last February for a divorce. He and his lawyer dragged it out. In December I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriends that lived with me. My judge ordered a guardian ad lietam and all three of us had to testify at the trial to who the father of the child was. However the judge could have ordered a DNA test to be done because the child was presumed my ex husband's by law.

I have put in my application for divorce and for a goverment apartment, but with goverment helped there is 3 stimpulations (for the divorce). 1. all properties are to be sold and divided evenly (we dont have any property), 2. was something else, and 3. was agreed custody over our duaghter. I sat down and tried talking to him calmly, but I don't see him agreeing on it. I take care of my daughter pretty much on my own (school issues, doctors,.

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My husband and I have been married for almost a year now. We are also expecting our first child in March. He has always treated me great and makes sure I'm taken care of, but that's not the problem. We had agreed when we first started dating to set basic relationship boundaries for each other, like no lying, no cheating, no hiding things from each other, ect. One of my boundaries was that I didn't want him watching porn.

Ok mommas i need some advice here I'm 19 going on 20 and I'm a ftm living in California. I work fast food but i have been off of work because of complications with the pregnancy..it's been a real struggle I've almost lost her a couple of times.. Any way before i was off of work they cut my hours at work from full time to 8 hours a week only working two days.. And they straight up told me it's because they have had problems with pregnant women in the past.

No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage? Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.

I'm in California too! This weather is already driving me crazy and I'm due in October. I stick my waters in the freezer so it's always ice cold.

We lived together only one moth after marriage and we had no sex. Then, wife filed for Divorce showing I had no sex with her. But I stated falsely in court that we had sex a few times. Is there any medical test to prove that we had no sex? I've read that a girl can not be certified as virgin even if her hymen is intact. Is it true? If her hymen is intact can doctor certify that she had no sex? Can doctor examine both husband and wife to check if they had sex?

Here in Australia custody rights happen with the divorce usually (its in our divorce papers) but it can happen at any time if the need arises, just means more money and lawyer/court costs. And like mizzztaylor said, unless they are adopted they still have to pay child support, don't let him get out of that one, thats what alot of these men try to do, think if they have nothing to do with them they won't have to pay for them.

Thanks everyone for the advice. We live in Wisconsin. We've been married 23 years with lots of up and downs. He is also a control freak and will try to intimidate me. Tonight he told me that I stepped out of bounds he would drop me from his open enrollment for group Insurance.

well if your married in most countries you are entitled to half of everything he owns.... so you dont have nothing. if he kicked you out of the home while your pregnant that only proves he is an incapable and uncaring parent since his child currently resides in you. And generally most courts pick the mother to be the primary care giver, unless the mother is completely incapable.

s shelter for a week came back things got better for a while got married then he acting like a **** again! Anyone have any advice about divorce and child custody that's been through this?

It's never easy but can be done. If Ur in an abussive relationship get out ASAP!! 1st for Ur safety, 2- for Ur babies safety. It is unfair & unhealthy for U & Ur child. Ur husband/boyfriend cannot take Ur child away fr U (whether U work or not). U have to be an unfit mother by being very neglectful or by using drugs. U don't necessarily need an atty, call the court they can help (there usually is a court clinic that works w people).

s possible that the lawyer at the clinic (if it is one that does divorces for women with few resources) will know someone in the women's-shelter world that could help you figure out how to stay safe. If you do decide to put the house up for sale, you'll definitely need to do it in consultation with someone who can help you with your safety.

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I served him paper two years ago but signed them to late. SHOULD I tell him about the baby in hopes that he will then file for divorce. Or just let him discover my growing baby.

Marriage is suppose to be "Until Death Us Part" not until he makes you sad, mad, or makes you cry. Pregnant or not. So, no I believe you should "let him go". You should tell him know how you feel. I know you're just looking for advice, but remember that's a choice YOU would have to live with. Praying for you and your marriage & Congrats on your baby!

Does anyone know of any llmds in southern california (torrance, san pedro, long beach, irvine) areas or any llmds near there? Any advice on how to look for one? Yesterday I had one margarita and I was drunk! My friend was looking at me because usually it takes a couple drinks to get tipsy and later I had a horrible headache that motrin did not help. I guess I better stay away from alcohol until I know whats going on with my body.

Even if your husband is the love of your life and you are sure this will never happen, for some women it does through death or divorce, and tubal ligation is really hard to reverse.

I have the divorce papers in hand. My husband will be coming over to talk tonight. Where I will be laying down the law. I want to work thru this because I do love him And he is good to me. Other than the fact the yard cheated on me with a icky stripper.. things wont be there same. But I'm willing to try. For the kids if nothing else.. he will be tested for every std under the sun ( even those I have 2 that I was honest about)...

He is separated from his wife of a few years, whom he has a daughter with. I wanted him to take a break away. We took split vacations I went to California for a medical reason and he went to Florida to stay with his sister. I am getting my Mirena (IUD) removed the day before he comes home, because I am having issues with it. He says he wants to file for a divorce with his wife and try to conceive with me when he comes home at the end of this week. Is it too soon? Possibly too much stress?

I am 10 weeks pregnant and have been married that long... My husband is not nice to me in the slightest. I know that for the sake of my baby and myself I need to do something but I don't know if I'm scared or what. I have constant anxiety and because of it I have a pain in my side. Has anyone else ever asked for a divorce? How did you do it? I don't know how to approach this and I feel like I'm dying inside.

but then i think what if what if im doing the wrong thing little advice.. please. i feel so alone in this amd all he does is say i stay for money and its not even that..

t work. Instead, the couple filed for divorce six weeks after the April 10 incident, according to court records. "If all you wanted to do is move, there's other ways than staging a burglary and rape," said Sacramento police Sgt. Andrew Pettit. "She went to great lengths to make this appear real.

So I found this really well-done video on CNN. A walk down memory lane for women of a certain age. ;D On the **** Cavett show, there is a clip of Hugh Hefner and some "women's libbers" that looks straight out of a Partridge Family episode, frankly, and very cliche. I love **** Cavett. So this got me to thinking. As sexist as the ads were, and as clueless as Hugh Hefner was, really, were women better off in relationships in the 1970's than now?

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