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5111430 tn?1377663221 s shelter for a week came back things got better for a while got married then he acting like a **** again! Anyone have any advice about divorce and child custody that's been through this?
Avatar n tn Just make sure when the baby is born that you take the necessary precautions and get custody of your baby. If you want child support you might need a paternity test. My bf recently went for custody of his daughter, age 6, when her mom moved her out of state without telling him and refused to give him an address.
Avatar n tn It is very important for the divorce not to cost him his relationship with either parent. A child in a joint custody situation does have extra stress, but with lots of love and attentive parenting he can be ok. You can expect tears at drop offs, and him saying he does not want to separate from whoever he is with. Let him express his feelings, give a quick hug, and then leave (just like you do at school).
Avatar f tn I have been wanting to leave my husband for several months now. And he is on to me that I'm seeing someone. Which I have been. But every time I tell him I don't want to be with him anymore, he forces our love for me to love him and I don't. I love him in a caring way but not an intimate way. Hes a type of person who gets hurt very easily, and I want to know how bad of an idea would it be if I told him I had been seeing someone for 7 months?....
10707428 tn?1415569790 d personally seek legal advice as it is his child and some states/countries have very specific policies on parents taking children away. As horrible as it is that he doesn't want to be with you that doesn't automatically make him a bad father and it doesn't give you the right still to take away his rights. Alternatively you could get his consent to move and that way u won't have legal hassles depending how amicable things are.
7343521 tn?1402371959 Joint custody is only for Married couples that are on the verge of divorce, so the child cam maintain the same life style.
Avatar f tn Need advice from anyone who's had to deal with sharing custody of their newborn. So I'm obviously not with my babies father and he is insisting when the baby is born that we should have 50/50 custody. I can't imagine how that would work. How can I give up my newborn every other week? Plus I really want to breast feed I don't want there to be nipple confusion. If anyone has had to deal with this I'd love some advice.
Avatar f tn s too long so if I gotta put him on child support just to get a custody agreement, I will. I know in texas if he puts himself on child support there's a strong possibility he would b able to come get your child anytime.
Avatar f tn My daughter and her hubby are getting a divorce. In this state you gotta come up with 2600.00 minimum to get a divorce attorney. Is it like this all over?
Avatar f tn I'm newly pregnant about 4 wks here's issue, I have been legally married for 17 years but for the last 7 years not with "ex"husband at all. We live together in separate rooms because I want to raise my 4 older children and can't afford a divorce since all our assets are tied together. I've been with another man for the last 4 years privately and in love .. Next year I was planning to take action and make things happen as in divorce papers ..
2074425 tn?1339178443 Well I never have been through a divorce but have been through a court child custody case in las Vegas, NV. In Nevada child support is 18% for 1 child and goes to 24% for 2 children. Now that is based off gross income not what he brings home. If the filing was strictly for divorce then that's all the judge would handle. If he wants partial custody/visitation with the children then he would have to file for that. In which the filing has to take place in the state of which the children live.
Avatar n tn Idk what the laws are where you are but here in KY you can not file for divorce until the child is born. You can file for legal separation but that is it. I would go ahead and call a lawyers and see what the rules are in your area. You may be able to file but not go to court until after baby is here. In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc.
Avatar f tn Does anyone know anything about Florida child support and child custody? I can't find any solid amswers and i wanna.be prepared legally for whatever the sperm donor may or may not do.
Avatar f tn Our school has a program for kids that have gone through family changes such as divorce which your child might really benefit from something like that. You can call a suicide prevention hot line and also discuss with them ideas on what to look for with your child. He may just be using that phrase and I sure hope so, but you just need to make sure that's all it is and get help either way to get him through a tough emotional time.
4247757 tn?1352206793 If you dont need him or his money just leave it be BUT if he starts acting like he wants to be in her life take him to court for custody and put him on child support this way u have it in writing and he can never take her from u cause he has the right to take her dont mean to scare u
Avatar n tn one parent with full custody and the other with visitation rights) or is it better for the child to have each parent equally involved in his life (i.e. one week on, one week off)?
Avatar f tn Were almost half way there and ive been thinking alot! My husband has three girls from his previous marriage. We've got custody of two. Their mother won't allow us to get the 3rd. But the middle child is 6 and she beats up.the oldest (8) for no reason! Now. I am a first time mom of my own and I've had his girls for almost two years. What if she does this to my baby ???? Their mother raised them and it seems to be impossible to break their nasty habits. So I need advice!!
3178444 tn?1348441829 The thing im worried about is if he finds out before the divorce papers are signed he will think I want the divorce more than him and try n use it as leverage to get half custody of our daughter 'not that he wants it for her he just thinks that would get him out of court ordered child support, and he also has nothing to do with her now' I know how dumb that is and I know it wouldnt go down that way, but I do know the way he thinks and it would just complicate and hold up the divorce..
Avatar n tn but in between she pees little in her panties all day long. She has been through alot.. parents going thru divorce.. 50/50 custody with us . she will be 5 march. She hides herself when she little pees and doesn't tell us.
Avatar m tn He is my son but it was the step dads lawyer that did the adoption and it was only suppose to be for a name change. He never let me have a copy of the adoption. I just think this behavior is a little strange.
Avatar n tn Not a problem! I have been there so I know how stressful it is! I even lost custody of my little grl in my divorce to my ex husband ( even though he isn't her dad) do to me and her real dad moving in together! So its all real tricky but as long as u keep ur nose clean and keep a clean house and everything for ur baby u should be fine! Did he already say he was gonna take the baby from u?
Avatar m tn He has a young daughter as well, and now we have a son together. My ex and I have a custody arrangement. I have sole physical custody and we have joint legal. I haven't had behavioral problems before as a result of my kids going to their dads, but within the last 6-8 months, my ex has been meeting women on the internet and subjecting my children to them. There is usually a "new friend" everytime they go there, most of which are his mother's age.
Avatar f tn I have posted things on here before about if I should leave my husband but now I'm at the point where I told him the other day that I officially want a divorce but he doesn't understand why I want to leave him. I told him its because I don't have feelings for him anymore and we fight to much we are more like brother and sister and would be better being friends.
4939004 tn?1361292012 From there, it can easily be modified through simple legal procedures if either of you want it modified in the future and it avoids arguments that get the child involved. You will have the option of sharing joint legal and physical custody, or just joint legal custody, or one of you can request full legal AND physical custody (I have this with my son; my ex just has visitation rights in our state only and child support but no custody rights), but don't expect that without some objection...
4437866 tn?1388119624 Here in Australia custody rights happen with the divorce usually (its in our divorce papers) but it can happen at any time if the need arises, just means more money and lawyer/court costs. And like mizzztaylor said, unless they are adopted they still have to pay child support, don't let him get out of that one, thats what alot of these men try to do, think if they have nothing to do with them they won't have to pay for them.
Avatar f tn s nephew (his cousin, also a minor) a few years ago and did see a doctor for a little bit. His mother is in the process of another divorce, they moved out of the home and into a hotel with her 20 year old boyfriend and her soon to be ex husband has custody of the 2 foster children they were attempting adopt. The obvious answer is for him to see a specialist/doctor, but his mother refuses. What can we do?
Avatar f tn Ahm maybe you should think twice before moving in. Men who love you don't say those kinds of things. He has given you a red flag. Tread carefully. Sometimes men want custody to keep from paying child support. Always have your own money so he can't say he takes care of everything and that you can't provide for your baby. Keep a job honey. This may not end well.
Avatar f tn Her real mom is taking him to court for sole custody all of a sudden she has also had child abuse on her with the child use to beat on her when she was a tot.she has taken my husband to court about 5 times now and maybe see the kid 2 times a year and is not there for her at all. Shes mad she has to pay child support for the last two years. And lies in court about everything and everytime the judge tells her u need to be in her life more period. And know here was r again court.