dealing with death wish

for the baby and how much will effect him. I usually a very emotional person when dealing with death and I feel like a horrible person for not allowing myself to feel bad. What do I do???

he is on parole so the state makes him pay for it. yes he has relapsed before and stated he was done. like I said it has been over a year clean then one day BANG! he decided to do this. I am not sure how to deal with this. I am fed up but see him mostly sober of it. he doesn't use frequently but when he does, it is excessive. nothing even happened in our lives to make him use. same routine up go to work come home eat and then bed.

Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.

I had my first son, Jeremiah, 3years ago. My husband and I really wanted a girl, but when we found out it was a boy, I actually found myself to be UPSET. For a while after I found out, I walked around wishing I wasn't pregnant with him. Of course I love my son to death, and can't imagine life without him. Now that I'm pregnant again, I'm having this mothers instinct that its a girl. But I don't want to go through the disappointment again.

I wish those were a option but I'm on my feet all day in a high stress environment dealing with patients/customers all day. I don't have the ability to walk away and breathe just have to help the next person or take the next call even if they are yelling at me.....

im 19 wks pregnant and i have a fetus with a diagnosis of CPC im scared to death because i have to wait 3 wks to go to a specialist...anyone have any hopes or ideas??

Hi, I am having a very difficult time dealing with family without having modd swings. I am trying to go to meetings, but my schedule and family situations are keeping me from doing so. Funny, I could have gone to bars and just neglected family in the past, but now, I am dealing with family situations and trying to be present. However, my children and my husband are DRIVING ME CRAZY. I keep serenity prayering and it helps for a little bit.

i don't know how you deal with losing a child. I'm not so sure that i can ever get through this, how do you do it? I mean get up every day and not feel guilty for living without them. I feel so guilty every day for getting out of bed and her not being here. I need some advice please.

Running from it is only going to make it worse but facing it head on and dealing with it is what you need to do to get your life back. Therapy is a great way to do this. Please consider it so you can start getting better.

Sometimes you just gotta let it.out. Crying isn't bad for baby it helps relive your stress which is good for baby. And yes my husband drives me.up the wall, he works 40 hours a week at a job while I work 24/7 with a one yr old at 24/3-4 with a one year old and a two year old (we have.my oldest 3-4 days a week depending on the week) and 24/7 with one a baking! He doesn't get it. I'm beginning to think most men don't. I don't have any advice as I'm dealing with the same.

m attracted to both genders so he gets nervous no matter who I hang out with, but more so when I hang out with women. Anyone else have any issues like this? How do you deal with feeling lonely?

Corey, I'm really sorry about what you're going through. I'm still dealing with my mom's death last year from cancer...she was only 54. There she was sick as hell fighting for her life while I was perfectly healthy & doing everything I could to destroy mine. I was feeling that I was the one that deserved to die. Now I know, that the best thing I can do is become well bc thats what my mom would have wanted---& I know thats what Alexis would have wanted for you.

Yea, this is true I am only 22 and have been dealing with anxiety and deppression since I was little. I mean if you can find a anxiety medication that will actually help you then go for it but just make sure you can trust yourself first. Some medicaiton can and will make you feel worse unfortunatly lots of anti-anxiety and anti-depressants can casue suicidal tendencies. I do not recomment ativan, mainly because it is a depressant itself.

hi my names avah and im 21 and witch im dealing with is a constant feeling gut feeling in my tummy that im going to die very very soon it just dosent go awAy its so strong and feels so real and it scare me i cant even leave my house i hate my life this feeling is the worst in the world i do have anxiety and depression but this feeling isnt a normal anxiety feeling this is the first time ive had it like i go numb it just feels like death is around the corner for me i dont know what else to do i

My mother(age 47) has drasticly gone down hill in the past 4yrs. It seemed to all happen at once and in the past year things have gotten worse. Heart disease runs strong in my family,not many have lived past 50yrs old.My mom has hypertension,high blood pressure, chronic lung disease, and heart disease to name a few. This past July she had to have emergeny double bypass surgery and had a minor heartatacke about a month after the surgery.

the added pressure of giving updates, or dealing with someone hovering I knew would be too much to deal with, so, I only told those I knew would understand and support regardless if they understood. When those outside that small circle asked how I was I would reply...I am ok...hanging in...or not bad.... Vent here...let us be the support u need. Chiari makes us compensate to do daily activities others never give a second thought to....

you will have anxiety just from droping doses but with time it will pass there are other ways of dealing with anxiety you can google ''how to deal with anxiety'' and get tips exorcize is good as are deep breathing treatments but you dont have to live chained to a pill.....your habit is light and wont be impossible to break many of our members where on 4mg of it and broke free stick with the forum keep reading posts we have several members here experiences with benzos...

Im very sorry for your loss, but please remember that you have gained a beautiful guardian angel. Iy is hard but remember that when the time is right you will have another baby to have for the rest of your life. Loosing a child is the worst thing a mother can deal with but just dont lose faith and remember you have someone looking after you and your family. Try and get your feelings out, there's nothing wrong with that, its part of coping with this.

Shut off our phones and mourned our babies death. We went to this nice winery with a beautiful river that ran by it and at sunset picked a flower for every week of our babies life with us in my belly and sent them down the river with thoughts and prayers of that journey. I don't know if it will help you but it at least gave me some closure. It's such a hard thing to go threw. I understand.

Dealing with death wish

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