dealing with death what to say

When we do this, it does come back to haunt us and forces us to deal with it. This excessive worry stems from what happened to your brother, and therapy will help you to overcome this worry, and cope with your loss. I do wish you all the best, and take care.

for the baby and how much will effect him. I usually a very emotional person when dealing with death and I feel like a horrible person for not allowing myself to feel bad. What do I do???

I lost a really good friend of mines Jan 30 and wasn't able to go home (wisconsin) to see him for the last time.. I just cried 4 days stright & barely eating.. Can't say it gets easier but I found a way to cope with it..

I know it was really hard for me to take in, as it is hard for u to loose any child believe me when i say god had a bigger need for ur child. He wants u to have a healthy beautiful child and that this loss was not the right child for u. Hold ur head up high and keep trying... the chances of another problem the next time is slimm to none! I was told to abort my child before she passed away. I couldnt end her life and i know she went the way she did to help me from making that choice.

To be clear, I AM NOT asking for the forums opinion on whether or not it is in-fact high/low risk, as that has been discussed enough here, rather more curious as to how it deals with these discrepancies.

There are people who completely recover from CFIDS, but it is a very small percentage.

Thanks so much for your message. What you said about death ends a life and not a relationship is a really great way too look at it, I still talk to my mum out loud just hoping she can hear me wherever she is. I was told that if your unhappy and then it make those in the spirt world unhappy so I try my best to be happy....Its just not so easy but it's only been a few months.

I know that you are having a hard time coping with these things i myself have lost a mom then a daughter abd sis and it will take time to go through the greiving process and it is not an easy thing to do, but in time you will heal i did not have asuppot group as i live in the country and there are no support groups here but they could help you i know i cried for so long but the main thing i think that saved me was my work i had to get up and go to work so if you go to sc hool dont miss it also t

This is scary stuff and sometimes people say stupid stuff. LIke what do you say to someone having cancer, or a death in the family. I have said real stupid stuff with out meaning to. There are literature from the NMSS like "You look so good". It is human nature to get to a saturation point with hearing about other's medical issues. What I did was get one person on the forum at the beginning I could talk to on Private messages. We supported each.

It took my husband and I two years to finally get pregnant with him and only 7 short weeks to loose him. He past away on July 23rd, due to a rare heart condition called HLHS. He was my first and he will always be my first. Now he is my Guaridan Angel and he makes sure I know that he is still looking after me everyday!!! I am now at peace, yes I still get upset but I am no longer grieving. My counselor pointed this out to me this past Friday.

Hello.. I know I have severe anxiety especially a phobia dealing with stds especially HIV all I do is Google hiv all day long for the past month..

Hopefully someone here can help you with your question , I just wanted to pop in and say to hang in there and make sure you keep working for a solution to this problem. If the Prednisone helps you breathe then you will probably need to go back on it if your still having the same issue. My sister in law was on 40mg for 4 years due to a bone disease and now she has been off of it for 3 years and she has been feeling fantastic and she looks great.

Hey I am very sorry to hear about your situation I lost my brother August 8th 2004 and it was the hardest thing I have dealt with I have had so many deaths close to me. I am suprised I am still alive everybody I love seems to die their are 5 stages to Grief Acceptance is the 5th so you seem to understanding now, counsling helps Grief supports groups just remembering the person and foucusing on the good times is a blessing. I got on drugs very badly, I am now a recoverying addict.

what does CPC stand for???

I have been thinking about death constantly now. I think it may have to do with the epilepsy, but NOW the ending of my life seems to make SO MUCH DAMN SENSE....!!! (and I can somehow SEE it...FEEL it coming...like Deja Vu)....I am not thinking of an active suicide...but by allowing one of my seizures to "do me in" (I can feel my life ebbing away with each one I have anyways....) Can anyone relate? IS this just a result of something organic in my brain or has the depression finally won?

side, I realized it wasnt worth it, and I have been trying to explain to all of my friends just what is wrong with me. All of them are nice and understanding. They even help me lug around my acid reflux wedge. WOW im off topic. Sorry about that. But anyway, just try relaxing somehow. Taking a bath, reading, watching television, just breathing, all of these things help for me. I hope I helped somehow.

I forgot to mention that Amiodarone is one of the drugs of choice when dealing with a stubborn arrhythmia which may be hard to control. Why this Internest says it's dangerous, I don't quite understand unless he is referring to the side affects, which the drug does have bad side affects......but so do all drugs.

Should I have a real fear of HIV, Herpes,Syphilis, Yeast Infection etc? I just need to get through the next few months to continue to get tested without brekaing down.

My name is MIke and I read your post. Interestingly enough, I just responded to a post very similiar to this one. Sounds like you have some of it figured out and that is to search for the facilities that will assist without insurance. What I would suggest is that you go down there in person and request to see a psychiatrist now...meaning to you, you must see one now because it is life or death. If you do not view our recovery as life or death, then I guess you can't say that.

I am glad I found this forum because it gives me a chance to help people. I know I may be wrong when I tell people what I think may be wrong with them but if they go to a doctor and get checked to me that is all that matters. If I can help one person avoid what I have been through by telling them my story, or give advice on how to ease their pain, that is what counts.

Oh wow what awful things to hear..i havent dealt with it myself but its really sad to see racism still exists in this day and age..racist people are patethic and need to pitied if you ask me,screw em they arent worth it hun,we cant control ignorant people...nobody is born a racist its something thats taught and shame on those people...best thing you can do is just focus on your children and raise them to rise above such ignorance..

old brother to pretend to be her boyfriend. She dances with him and pretends to go on dates. With is normal, and I know that. what bothers me is that she kisses him. He doesn't think anything is wrong with it but I don't want this to turn into other "explorations". She is extremely bright and absorbs everything. We don't watch any adult shows or news because she absorbs everything. We are an affectionate family but not inappropriate.

I was doing okish for a while, and now I'm back down. I'm seeing my neuro on the 1st, and I'm trying to figure out how to explain what's going on with me to him. The best way I can describe it (so far) is that my functionality is improving while my pain is actually getting worse. It's like there's this total disconnect between my brain and my body in a way that wasn't there before.

She sounds overbearing and lacking boundaries. While no one is perfect there does come a time when enough is enough. Moreover, you need to establish boundaries with her pronto. You can make a pro/con list in regards to her. If the cons are more than the pros then it's probably time to let this relationship go. This relationship may have just run its course. You can try talking to her again.

You need to get help dealing with all those feelings you are experiencing. If you are afraid to go to an MD then try to get yourself to a therapist or a mental health clinic although meds and therapy would probably be the most beneficial. When we experience the loss of someone so close to us it forces us to face our own mortality, something that most of us don't like to do.

So now my bf is goin to tell them but hes very straight to th point and i dnt want to fall out with them cos i will be liven next to them for a very long time. But it has to b done. What shld he say so tht he doesnt upset anyone??

I think its really important for you to find someplace else to go -- this is not a place for you if your tryng to get clean. I dont really know what to tell you other than I will pray for you and I hope and pray you can find some place safe to go. Have you looked into maybe inpatient rehab? Is there anyway to get charity care for that? Or adult therapeutic community? I went to one a long time ago with no insurance. Is it wd you are afraid of?

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