Dealing with death spouse
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wow so sad your going threw this with both your parents, man thats not easy went threw it with just mom and it was very hard on me.
ok when mom was like 7 years into it her mom passed, so dad told her she was very up-set and cried a lot, than she forgot it and ask about her mom a few weeks later , dad told her again that her mom had passed , she was shocked and so sad. i talk to her dr and he said do not tell them someone they have loved is gone.
I managed to taper myself off the pain meds and having living a reasonably healthy lifestyle. I'm not judgmental in any way of what people are dealing with because I understand how hard it is to change a routine or pattern. My wife happens to like beer...really like it. I don't mind her drinking beer at all and sometimes I'll even purchase the exotic beers for her so she could enjoy something else.
m the only person with a spouse with addiction issues but the deep down thoughts.. Like is it me? Is it something I did? Or why does he lie to me? Like its always my fault.. I have lost sight of myself & my needs due to his addiction.. Like I had said my life is a roller coaster and some days are great some days are bad. It just depends on if he is using or not? When they are good I feel like we just sweep the problem under the rug & if I bring anything up its a fight.
I have written before, bad night last night. Can anybody tell me how to deal with spouse. He is in a hypermanic state and he is so aggitated, mostly at me. I try to be suportive, but if I mention he's acting hyper or say slow down, or relax or anything, he get really angry and start to really scream at me. Jumps out of his seat and screams "don't gell me how I feel." So, can somebody tell me how to act. Do I say nothing? His dr.
Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.
Need to get into family therapy, it really helps with dealing with this sort of stuff.
i don't know how you deal with losing a child. I'm not so sure that i can ever get through this, how do you do it? I mean get up every day and not feel guilty for living without them. I feel so guilty every day for getting out of bed and her not being here. I need some advice please.
JJ - thank you for the comfort. I have tried to not allow him to use his MS as an excuse. I do think he is just trying to soften the blow. It's very difficult to cope with the loss of someone I have been best friends with since I was 14 years old. It's almost like grieving a death. I keep hearing that it will take time - I just hope I'm strong enough to get through it.
You may have to get on meds for a while to be able to function with the amount of grief that you are dealing with. My mom and I are here if you need or want to talk. Try to take care of yourself and your child and get help because no one should have to go through this alone. Again I am so sorry that this happened.
My mother(age 47) has drasticly gone down hill in the past 4yrs. It seemed to all happen at once and in the past year things have gotten worse. Heart disease runs strong in my family,not many have lived past 50yrs old.My mom has hypertension,high blood pressure, chronic lung disease, and heart disease to name a few. This past July she had to have emergeny double bypass surgery and had a minor heartatacke about a month after the surgery.
My spouse has stage 4 cirrohosis, with hep. C genotype 1b. He took the treatments back in 2008, but didn't work for him. He is currently taking Xifaxan for the hepatic encepth.(sp). But now he has become very confused, foggy, and is on a emotional roller coaster. He is jaundice, and has lost weight. Does anyone know of any support groups, or where we can turn to...its tearing our family apart.
My 52 year old husband of 25 years has always had addiction problems - alcohol, marijuana, and crystal meth. Over the years he has stopped using meth and alcohol on and off. He drinks several times a week, and becomes drunk about once a week. But the meth is the worst. He uses it once a month, sometimes every other week, sometimes not for six months. But he is always going back to it, always lying about it, and always refusing to get help.
Communications with deceased family members or friends take many forms including seeing them, hearing their voice, feeling them touch you, smelling their cologne, perfume or a favorite flower, sensing their presence or experiencing signs such as electronics turning off and on spontaneously, finding coins in unexpected places with the year of their birth or death, and seeing the deceased in vivid dreams.
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