Dealing with death of mom
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Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.
I know my dad was self destructive and died at a very young age and I was very angry with him for a while for leaving my 
My mother(age 47) has drasticly gone down hill in the past 4yrs. It seemed to all happen at once and in the past year things have gotten worse. Heart disease runs strong in my family,not many have lived past 50yrs old.My mom has hypertension,high blood pressure, chronic lung disease, and heart disease to name a few. This past July she had to have emergeny double bypass surgery and had a minor heartatacke about a month after the surgery.
Exactly a week after laying my mom to rest I found out that I was 8 weeks pregnant with my 6th child. It hurt a lot bc my mom was there for all of my other pregnancies. I was so upset and sad, and being pregnant was the last thing that I would've wanted. I'm now 26 weeks I've moved on a little and am starting to get happy about the birth of my 3rd daughter.
Okay this is long Im sorry! so a little background on myself- I am going to be a single parent, in the military and my daughter is due in 20 ish days. I thought I've made it clear to family that I don't want all my relatives trying to come out here, especially not before she comes. I want my time with my daughter and to get settled into my new duty station,etc. I also live in a one bedroom apartment and have zero room for people to stay with me.
She needs support but is bashing every aspect of being pregnant and becoming a mom. I have one and another on the way, I tried being supportive only for her to keep throwing negativity... I don't have the energy to argue with someone like that... Nothing I say explains to her that breastfeeding shouldn't be a horrible chore but a bonding experience... Her response is just wait until... Etc I've been there and didn't have these issues.
I also had this problem and a heating pad helps I just made sure it wasn't on my stomach while to hot. My step mom made me rice bags with lavender and they have been miracle workers.
I had my first son, Jeremiah, 3years ago. My husband and I really wanted a girl, but when we found out it was a boy, I actually found myself to be UPSET. For a while after I found out, I walked around wishing I wasn't pregnant with him. Of course I love my son to death, and can't imagine life without him. Now that I'm pregnant again, I'm having this mothers instinct that its a girl. But I don't want to go through the disappointment again.
According to his mom even if he was single he wouldn't touch her I guess she's not his type...
It's been 4 years today since my mom passed away.
As if it weren't enough to mourn the loss of my mom, I'm also mourning the loss of my dad who died only 9 months before my mom. He just suddenly collapsed one day, and even though the paramedics were able to "bring him back", he stayed in a coma for 3 weeks and then we lost him.
I'm also mourning the loss of my twins who were born premature 26 years ago. They were born on August 24, 1983.
So I had the ovaries removed along with my uterus because my mom had uterine cancer. I am 45, which I think is young to have had this major surgery. I am now in surgical menopause which I hope will improve in a couple weeks once I start hormone replacement. I understand your concern and frustration with repeat cysts. They are no picnic. Has your doc tried birth control pills or possibly the lupron injection, which puts you into a drug induced menopause?
I agree with blsdnsvvd...anxiety is a symptom of hypo. It can also take some time to get used to having thyroid hormones available again. The whole endocrine system has to rebalance.
What are the reference ranges for his TT3 and FT4? Ranges vary lab to lab, so you have to post them with results. A really good way to do that is to report "test, result (range), e.g.
FT4 0.33 (0.8-1.8)
Total T3 is considered an obsolete test. FREE T3 is much more useful.
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