Dealing with death mother

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Avatar f tn Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.
Avatar n tn My mother(age 47) has drasticly gone down hill in the past 4yrs. It seemed to all happen at once and in the past year things have gotten worse. Heart disease runs strong in my family,not many have lived past 50yrs old.My mom has hypertension,high blood pressure, chronic lung disease, and heart disease to name a few. This past July she had to have emergeny double bypass surgery and had a minor heartatacke about a month after the surgery.
Avatar f tn i don't know how you deal with losing a child. I'm not so sure that i can ever get through this, how do you do it? I mean get up every day and not feel guilty for living without them. I feel so guilty every day for getting out of bed and her not being here. I need some advice please.
2021410 tn?1330940183 it took me 17 yrs to feel normal.**** happens to everyone,and god bless us each an everyone of us....dealing with it is what counts..how you choose to live your life is what counts..im still not 100% there,but im trying me damdest..
Avatar f tn for the baby and how much will effect him. I usually a very emotional person when dealing with death and I feel like a horrible person for not allowing myself to feel bad. What do I do???
Avatar f tn m the only person with a spouse with addiction issues but the deep down thoughts.. Like is it me? Is it something I did? Or why does he lie to me? Like its always my fault.. I have lost sight of myself & my needs due to his addiction.. Like I had said my life is a roller coaster and some days are great some days are bad. It just depends on if he is using or not? When they are good I feel like we just sweep the problem under the rug & if I bring anything up its a fight.
Avatar f tn This is like having the flu everyday of your life. My two younger children are so fed up with my illness that they both now live with their father and no longer talk to me. That is very painful. I know where you're coming from and I understand how it feels when your family turns their back on you. I don't have the answers because I haven't been able to find them myself.
Avatar f tn there is an emptiness and a void which i think any mother that loses a child just has to learn to live with as i dont think we can get over it...but we can move on and help others..its took me such a long time...as u said to me..you cant say you know how i feel..i too cant imagine how you feel either..its heartbreaking..but also..this site has helped me and i hope you keep posting....and keep expressing how u feel..your an inspiration hun..i hope u realise that..
7294851 tn?1389925070 Waitingforspring, it is so sad to see how many people are dealing with the same thing I just did. It is horrifying. My mother was 64 also. I can only remember her being my MOM up until maybe age 10. After that, it was unlikely to see her sober unless she was working. Sooo in a sense, I lost my mom way before I actually DID, this was just the finality of it. I have been looking at old photos this week as well, and I love remembering her for who she was before alcohol stole her away.
Avatar f tn I had my first son, Jeremiah, 3years ago. My husband and I really wanted a girl, but when we found out it was a boy, I actually found myself to be UPSET. For a while after I found out, I walked around wishing I wasn't pregnant with him. Of course I love my son to death, and can't imagine life without him. Now that I'm pregnant again, I'm having this mothers instinct that its a girl. But I don't want to go through the disappointment again.
Avatar f tn me im a single mother working. At mc donadls living with my mother and i struggle every day with how. Im take care. Of my son. But i pray about it and i know im have bad days..
Avatar n tn My mother has had problem over the last several years with drugs, maily loratabs. She has stolen from people that trusted her. Including her own children's that were prescibed for a reason. She has gone to detoxic, half way houses, NA meetings several times. After everytime she claims to be better but next thing I know she steals them from me or some else. The other day she came over and then all of the sudden left in a hurry.
Avatar m tn I am having a really hard time with my mother's death. She passed away from liver cancer almost 2 weeks ago, and I try to talk to her, but I find myself feeling silly, because I don't know if she's really listening, or if she's even still around me. It makes me feel so guilty because I have hardly cried, and I find myself afraid to fall asleep, or to be in the dark because she might show up.
Avatar f tn sorry to hear my sisters husbands sister in law is the same way.. my sister has 5 kids and while the sister in law has tried to get pregnant she hasnt been successful... on the other hand when someone is trying to get pregnant n it fails to do so it hurts its not that they mean to resent you on it but it hurts when they try and nothing yet...
Avatar f tn Can anyone recommend any books on dealing with the loss of your mother and your very best friend. I know I need help, I feel like I'm drowning. I miss her so much, I just don't know how to go on. Thanks for any help you can give.
Avatar m tn ...I wasn't sure if there was a separate forum for family support or not. If so, I'd MUCH appreciate a link! :) I'm dealing with my mother-in-law. She's paranoid schizophrenic and abusing pain pills and meth. We just got her out of the hospital due to a blood clot in her lung. The clot is still there but they figured she was well enough to be released and has been given a medication to break up the clot.
761787 tn?1234305359 im 19 wks pregnant and i have a fetus with a diagnosis of CPC im scared to death because i have to wait 3 wks to go to a specialist...anyone have any hopes or ideas??
Avatar f tn My father has been dating this one woman three months after my mother passed away from Ovarian Cancer. I'm trying to get along with her but she is so opionated. First she tells my father how to eat and dress and now she's telling me that I need to lose weight. The last straw was when she told me that I shouldn't take my nine year old son to New York for my mom's unveiling.