What I CAN advise, is that you seek professional assistance, guidance
and diagnosis. This forum is great
and I come here
and post quite often as of late, but there are some problems & issues best left to the professionals.
I would urge you to go and see your GP/PCP for a Urologist referral. If you don't have insurance, go to the ER. No matter what hospital ER you go to, they are, by law, not allowed to turn you away until you've been diagnosed and stabilized.