It sounds like your discomfort with your sexual
orientation is creating an anxiety about STD’s/STI’s. Of
course, statistically, your chances are increased when you have unprotected sex with a man, but risk reduction is important when being sexual with EITHER sex, so do get comfortable with condoms, etc.
In closing, I have a question for you: What do YOU think is going on with your emotions? You probably have more insight than you’ve given yourself credit for. Dr.