Enough Said!!!!! I think you will be a wonderful mother. And I do think if there is a way you mom will be there. She has a lot of time to plan and figure this out. And who knows, your b/f may come around. When I had my 3rd child, my husband and I were not married yet and he said he wasn't "going to watch", but he went in there and ended up
almost in the doctor's place....LOL. Wanted to see it all! Don't worry, it will all work out.