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Hi, Im a 34 year old women and recently i have been suffering from lots of pains in the middle of my chest area. I have constant pain in between my breast area and now it has started to hurt in my back between my shoulder blades constantly. I havent felt normal for a while now and am starting to get worried. I have been to a few doctors and they cant seem to pin point yet whats wrong. I dont have a gall bladder , had that out years ago but ever since then i havent been right.
I have been abused by my wife since I got married. I have to admit that I have made a couple of decisions in my life that my wife wasn't happy about it that has made our lifes from an economic point of view more difficult. As a result of those decisions I get abused on a daily basis. I don't know what to do anymore. I have been feeling guilty and put up with it for the longest time. We have three children and if it wasn't for them I could take some action but I don't want to risk my children.
To my bf his Mother is holy she can do no wrong thts the women to be like. Well I'm tired of it. Every day its a constant battle. We all live together n she comes home from work n he's like a puppy waiting n thy talk about bills n everything else. Like I can't really help financially bt talking to me wud be nice I dnt get informed about anything. I come home from work I had a Dr appt today n he didn't even ask me how it went. Seems like he dnt care at all about me just his D*m mom.
We are happily married for 10 years and she has nothing at all to be stressed about other than raising 2 crazy kids and normal issues with her family. About 2 months ago she started complaining about her throat feeling like it was closing, since then the things she complains about is tired, lose of appetite, sick at her stomach, dizzy, feeling not right and not safe with the kids, and a few more things. She has went to a Ear Nose and Throat doc with no luck.
Hi have been married for just over 4 years now. My wife has always been very sensitive to evereything. She has always had an issue with Trust and frequently acuses me of having relationships without having any reason. She has gone so far as to tell me that someone has phoned her to tell her that I am cheating on her. I cannot even walk with her in a mall, as she would get very angry and accuse me of looking at woman.
When I started treatment in March , my wife made me promise that I would always be completely honest with her about how treatment is going and how I really felt , good or bad. I have pretty much stayed with that up until now. We had a talk on Saturday about how "negative" I am about treatment , side effects and potential results of the treatment. I don't think she wants me to be completely honest anymore. I am always , or mostly always upbeat with my son.
My 14 year old daughter has had constant stomach pains in her lower right side since the end Jan 2009. It came on very suddenly as a sharp pain. She was admitted to hospital with suspected appedicitus but sent home again. Several admissions later and all sorts of tests have revealed nothing. Blood/urine tests have come back normal. She's had 3 ultrasounds - again they were normal.
I hover around 100 but it doesn't fluxuate much higher than that. I'm usually warm, but a comfortable warm. My wife HATES that I keep the a/c in our house at 68 in the summer time. I walk the dog in a t-shirt in February (live in Pittsburgh), and it's refreshing. I have never had a doctor explain this to me, despite my asking them. What I can figure is this: I grew up in Colorado where winters are very harsh at times.
Why do I have the constant smell of smoke in my nose. It used to be just an occasional thing, but lately it seems to be all the time. I am concerned that this is a symptom of something I don't know about. The smell is strong. I used to notice it about a half hour after taking my Allegra-D 12 hr. tablets, but now I smell it much more often. Am I going crazy or is there something to this I'm not aware of. Has anyone else experienced this? Please help?
I don't know what to do there is no pain killer, chinese medicine, herbal medicine, homepathic medicine I haven't tried. What Shall I do???????????? My wife is tired of hearing me complaining that I don't feel well. This is upsetting our whole life, there is simply no energy and excitement to my health.
I posted a couple of weeks ago complaining of a red, inflammed area in my left eye just on the outside in the white part of my eye. No other symptoms like burning or itching, etc. When my wife looked at me eye she noticed a white or almost yellowish bump at the inflammed area. I went to my eye doc, he said it was due to extreme dryness and contact lens over-wearing possibly (I have slept in my contacts for 10 years with no problems at all).
Apparently when a person has an extended stay in a ICU unit, the combination of medication, lack of sleep (due to constant nursing), surroundings of bright lights on all the time and ongoing sounds of machinery create a state of psychosis. The symptoms are disorientation and hallucinations. My dad for instance, thinks it is sometime in the early '80's, keeps asking to speak to my mother (who died three years ago), and thinks he is holding objects in his (empty) hands.
My father did not come, he rang me in the afternoon to say happy birthday and ask what we were doing for dinner - this mind you is a man who knew I was going to Billy Joel and when I suggested that we could do something today told me he was too busy with a school fete and a sausage sizzle fund raiser for a political party (my stepmother is a Campaign Organiser for the Liberal Party here) and could not fit it in.
Much to the dismay of my wife, I deleted 3 of my journals and only left the one up about quitting tobacco. She had posted something that she apparently wanted everyone to see, I had foolishly erased it. From this point forward I will never erase anything, and everyone please post on everything I have to say.
My 8 year old son has been complaining of nausea and stomach pains for the last 3 weeks now. It started when he said he ws feeling sick and his stomach hurt. The pain seems to be in the centre of his stomach. The pain and nausea is not constant and comes and goes. He has twice been sent home from school because he has vomited. He says the vomit is clear and fluid like. He has no other symptoms, no temperature, no loss of appetite. We took him to the doctor twice.
I'm in pain, and I feel like I'm being treated like an addict looking for his next fix, so I changed doctors and I am taking topamax for headaches, and tylenol 3 for pain, and then I go to my yearly visits to the neurologist and eye doctor. I've tryed to stop complaining and just suck it up but its sucking me up. I'm trying my best to live. I want to be the best father I can be, not in pain and pushing the kids aside because of it.
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I had a baby went to a 18 then lost it all and was back to my pre preg jeans and he started complaining that he wanted someone skinny that he wasn't attracted to me. Well that did it, I lost all motivation and went back to a size 18 where I stand now. He has mentioned multiple times that he hates it. I ask him does he want me back how I was and he says no I want you to be skinny. Well f it think because I can't so why even try. I have never been that skinny girl.
When my wife was pregnant with our first child, my daughter elbowed her in the stomach, totally out of the blue for no apparent reason. There was constant disobedience, too. A year later, when my wife was pregnant with our second, my daughter tried to trip her. She also tried to trip my father once when we were visiting his house. We moved into a new house, and after awhile there, she killed a bird in the driveway. Then started the disobedience again, this time with constant lying as well.
One day while complaining about someones schedule interfering with mine, my wife kindly pointed out that I had to change my schedule recently and that it is okay to be flexible. It is okay to be flexible.... I suggest you talk to your fiance and find out what the big deal is about this. (You have to keep your temper in check for this to work.) Relax... all you're talking about is why this is such a big deal.
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My wife is having nausea for the past couple of years and she has sinus issues too. Recently she is complaining of tooth ache and when she went to the dentist he suspected sinus issues... I am also wondering whether the sinus discharge down the back of the throat is causing the nausea. Last year we went to Gastroentrologists and they didn't find anything that could cause this kind of constant nausea.
I have, basically, lost just about every aspect of my life. I don't play with my kids anymore, my wife and I argue constantly because my sex drive is gone, I'm in a constant state of depression (which came on way after the pain started back in September), I am always in pain and she believes my old doctor when he said it was all in my head. It's very frustrating and disappointing that my situation has ended up on this road. No support from anyone. not even my parents.
I exercise regularly but probably eat and drink a bit too much. My sex life with my wife, whom I still love dearly after almost 40 years of marriage, is pretty well non-existent since 1999 when I suffered severe anxiety and was prescribed the anti-depressant Arapax. I became impotent for 2 years and when I stopped using the drug my ability to get erections and ejaculate returned over the next 6 months.
Two years ago I was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder, and as time went with it I was found to have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder as well. As most people on medications for mental illnessed do, I quit taking mine through the two year period and in that time resolved little issues. I never took therapy although I should have but listened to people say "Buck up and quit complaining." or something along those lines.
I feel that I have so much to give to society and also so much to offer the world yet because my body is damaged, what do I have to give but the loud screams and constant crying that my poor wife and son have to put up with all day, every day? I collapsed the other day and the ambulance was called.
You are living with one of the most difficult situations possible and I'm sorry your husband is turning your life into a nightmare. We both know he needs help, but you can't force him to change. As I'm sure you're aware, an alcoholic will not admit they have a "problem" until they are ready, which usually takes hitting rock bottom for most.
[1][2] The name derives from the fact that, in the sagittal view, the SMA and AA (with some imagination) appear to be a nutcracker crushing a nut (the renal vein). I was originally Diagnosed with Pelvic Congestion after complaining for many years of Chronic pelvic pain, left sided flank pain, lower back, and lower limbs. My husband and I were also trying to conceive for 6 years and all the doctors could tell me was that I had a great looking uterus.
I FEEL LIKE SHE CAME HERE AND SHE DIDNT FOCUS ON BETTERING HERSELF BUT WENT AND HAVE ANOTHER BABY WHEN SHE COULD'T EVEN TAKE CARE OF THE TWO SHE HAD. NOW WHY IS IT MY WIFE AND MYSELF PROBLEM , SHOULD WE FEEL GUILTY AT ALL . I FEEL LIKE MY WIFE IS AND NOW IS PRESSURING ME TO ALLOW IT. I NEED SOME ADVISE . I DONT THINK I COULD DEAL WITH HER 2 KIDS RUNNING UP AND DOWN MY HOUSE THEY ARE 6 AND 7 PLUS HAVING A BABY CRYING ALL NIGHT ,PLUST DEALING WITH HER ATTITUDE .. I DIDN' T SIGN UP FOR THAT.
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