Prior to the surgery we were a loving couple, married 14 yrs, raised my two
kids and her two
kids. After the surgery there was a total emotional disconnect from me. Upon her return home, I bent over backwards to assist her with her rehab, I offered encouragement, modifying the house to make basic tasks easier, I did all cleaning, laundry, cooking, shopping... etc.
She remains, to this day, totally disconnect from me emotionally.