complaining mother in law

re appreciative, but the baby needs to spend time with your family too also see if you can get your bf/hubby involved so that its clear to everyone.

to the numbers poster: you didn't tell your future mother in law that you were engaged?Your husband didn't call his parents within a day or so of your getting engaged? I can't imagine being estranged like that.

t happy but kept their opinions to themselves most of the time. Then our son was born and my mother in law fell in love. He is now 3 and she gets upset when he doesn't want to spend once a week with her! Now we are expecting our 2nd son and she's so involved so excited can't wait for him to arrive to spoil him.

Mine dident give me crap about it they just told me they wish I would of picked out simething a little more easy for my mother In law who is in mexico. Im naming my son Ian Andres. Ian just because ive always love that name and Andres after his dad. So when they started saying how it was going to be hard for my mother in law to remember it. My husband jumped in and said it wasent a problem she could just call him.by his second name. And they havent said anything since.

My sister in law does the same thing. I live in a house where there is me and my husband, husband's twin brother, older brother and his wife. She will throw away food I just bought to make room for her stuff and hide food in there room and won't clean up after herself while eating.

I would take the double if your able, its more money for you. As for the house work I would suggest you just leave her things alone. If she says anything about it just start complaining like she does, its totally unfair for her to act this way towards you, and I'm sure there is a million other things you want to focus on. And like the other girls said, where is your husband and FIL, they could help out too.

Okay, here is the story... I'm 17 weeks and my mother in law is a nosey b**** , before I got pregnant it was the same thing. around 5 weeks preg , I cut her out completely because and.kept getting into my husband and i's intimate issues... bills, our fights, questioning every little thing, etc. And after she finds these things out runs and tells everyone with ears... not that im a secretive person but the things she say to ppl she has no bussines saying.

I live in a different country from where my in-laws live. My Mother-in-law keeps asking my husband for money. It is very tight for ud and I am helping in paining the rent, bills and all dort of stuff. I'm not a person who hates peopl, but she is really getting on my nerves. My husband is assuring me that I and the baby are his priority, but I feel that he is compassionate with her, which is not wrong.. Do you think I am being an evil person?

I suggest that you take some recipe with your mother in law and try cooking those dishes. Am sure he would love it.

I ordered mine yesterday and was so excited about being able to save some money that I was sharing the info with my mother-in-law. Well, she went off! Told me that because I get a free breast pump, that's the reason her insurance has increased from $1400/month to $2000/month. I was so upset that I couldn't even respond, luckily this was all done via text message. First of all, it's not my fault your insurance went up and if it's free, why wouldn't I take advantage of it?!

s primarily the one related to the problem mother who should solve it, not the daughter in law. See what your husband can do in talking to his mother. I know husbands aren't always great at understanding why we need space from their mothers, but her behavior will impact his life, too. Maybe he won't do it, but it's worth a shot.

My mother in law even tried to argue with me about me wanting to use pampers over Huggies and I simply had to just laugh it off like I didn't take it serious and not even answer her. They will treat you a whole new way from here on out. It's so crappy but it's true. Ugh.

Anybody elses mother in law driving them nuts? I've always thought of her to be so sweet. Sometimes she's too much for me. She has a lot of energy now. An every time she calls an I don't answer (she calls 3xs a week. Her conversations are like an hour+ long. An she talks over me.) But every time I don't answer she'll call my husband an keeps bugging him if I'm mad at her or if I'm okay. The first time I didn't answer I thought that was sweet.

Any of you guys in a tight situation living with your mother in law while pregnant? Any advice on how to be less irritated?

Ok I posted about this before asking if I should invite my mother in law to my shower well I broke down and put her name on the invitation well I just found out today that she calls my husband the 3rd and asks him to call our son and tell him happy birthday for her I have never done anything to this woman but I'm about to let the hormones fly and see how she likes it

we are expecting a baby due feb next year and i am sooo worried about having two mother in laws to please and pamper too they are such hard work, so controlling over my bf. lord help me. how do u deal with troublesome mother in laws??? i also dont want my child to be so confused and too be lied too like my poor bf was as i can see the affect its had on him.

Does anybody have a freaky mother in law my seems to think my unborn baby girl is hers its really getting to me and my partner dont understand she goes on saying my baby and if u have her early in the morning im havin her that afternoon and i wont ask wen to have her ill take her wen we want! She was also given two full bags of newborn baby clothes to give to us and she sed shes keepin them ther cus shes having her!!!!

Good luck mother in laws can be the devil lol :-)

I know absolutely nothing about babies/child rearing..my mother in law has had 4 and knows but is very set in her ways.she scares me with talk of "oh MY baby girl is going to do this and that"I want to raise my own child but I'm 20 years old and have no frame of reference..any general tips or advice for me and my baby girl. And also what to do about an over controlling mil. Thanks!

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