Complaining how to stop
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I wish people stop complaining about what questions other people post... Either read it or don't! answer it or don't! I know this may seem hypocritical cuz i am doing the same thing right more but whatever! Don't read mine either!
Wow I live in Alabama and our weather is in the 80's now and I have to have all 3 a/c in my house on to keep comfortable. How do you all do it with no air.
I've been dilated at a 6 since last Monday and baby is at station +1. Docs said they thought I would be back within 2 days to deliver because she is so low, and because I'm dilated so far. I wish she would come already! I had to stop working because they thought I wouldn't make it to the hospital in time to deliver...but LO is staying put. I'm burning up all my sick time and I feel just fine...it sounds crazy, but I wish I could go back to work until she arrives...
This is my first baby and EVERYTHING that can happen has! I was diagnosed with Hypermesis (HG) at 7 weeks so I could not keep down foods and liquids for 11 weeks; plus I was on bed rest 2 months; several hospitalizations, a home care nurse and an IV for 8 weeks! I am on meds and a 24 hour Zofran pump still to stop the vomiting and nausea. I've been diagnosed with chronic salviation so I spit all day (between 30-40 ounces daily). I started leaking from my left breast at 10 weeks.
I wonder what it would take to find the courage to tell the truth and live with people's reactions, mad, disappointed, but probably no worse than where the lying takes you.
Have you had experiences that have left you feeling that people being mad at you is not just uncomfortable (as it is for everyone) but feels dangerous? If so, are you now much less vulnerable and more able to protect youreself than you were back in that scary time?
Hi Micky and welcome. What are you willing to do? Anything? When I wanted to stop I was willing to do what ever it took. When my parents offered to get me in touch with someone in AA I took them up on it. I met this person, we talked and then went to my first AA mtg. I've been going ever since. It was at the mtgs I met ppl just like me. Some of their situations were better and worse but the thinking, the excuses and the justification was all the same.
We bought a HUGE plastic container of them. Whenever I started to feel the urge to upchuck I would pop a peppermint ASAP and it literally made me stop. Peppermint will also ease headaches if you suck on them and lay down, hold them against the roof of your mouth. Ive had sickness my whole pregnancy (26wks now)...
It was said by all kinds of doctors that masterbation help enhance sexual life, its enjoyable, pleasureable etc. But It is also commonly known by alot of others that another term for masterbation is--- SELF ABUSE. I'm writing this becasue i personally has gone through a hard time trying to quit this crazy habits. I use to do it 3 to 4 times a day, 4 days a weeks, thinking that it is not harmful & that i feel good.
But about his complaining, tell him to man up and support you because it takes two to make a baby. Tell him that by getting uses things your probably saving hundreds of dollars that could go to a bill or something like that.
this is my second pregnancy. I had a girl with my first. this time around its a boy. my back hurts every once in awhile like 3-4 times a week. it never happened with my girl. this boy is starting to drive me nuts lol always on my bladder. I can't do anything but lay down when my back hurts it hurts to move an inch. and I'm always soo tired and hungry!!
I agree with Nickielea, and I would also try the "video tape" thing.
Do you have a video camera? Video feedback is a miraculous tool. ;D You can tell her where you're setting it up, and when, and then watch it together WITHOUT YOUR COMMENT. Don't say see there, look at that what you did. Just tell her ahead that you want the atmosphere in the house to improve, and the bickering to stop, and you'd like to videotape some of the house and then watch it later.
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