Hello, i am a 37 year old single parent of two boys, i was married to thier father who was mentally ill and i did not know it. He started abusing me a few years into the marriage and my sons witnessed it early on, i finally got out of the situation. I was left to fend for myself and two unstable boys, i have gone threw hell, i have had so much family therapy i could be a therapist myself, nothing changed, i have been involved with the legal system as well, nothing.