I too am sorry for what you're going through. I
completely agree with Army Princess, you can
get preg. on birth control. I have
had cysts that have ruptured before and it does cause intense pain, but no bleeding. I also agree that your ex needs to see a Dr. to figure out what's going on. I know you can't force her to go to the Dr. but please try to encourage it. Has her pain/bleeding stopped?