i was at a party and i made out with a girl, who i don't know if she had herpes or not. About 2 weeks later, i noticed a small red bump
in my inner
. it didnt hurt at first, and it was red. after about a week or two, i forgot about the bump. then about a month after the party, it became very blood red and it didnt hurt. the next day it was a white swollen oddly shapped bump, and it hurt badly, but only if touched or irratated.