and he is ALWAYS tearing them down, he won't leave them built and just play in
them. He throws dirt, spits, he runs in
the house even though we told him not to.
All the above, even when we try time outs, etc.. We gone so far as to do a controlled spanking (putting him over our laps after discussing with him what he did wrong and why he's getting a spanking) and he will scream like we beat him and then 2 minutes later, he's out doing it again. I feel like we are spanking him every 20 minutes.