
OK,
For starters, if you have had "protected" sex,
epididymitis is not likely. However, you mention the prostate exam "hurt like hell" I understand prostate exams are uncomfortable, however, if there is inflammation of the prostate gland, this is going
to hurt when they do a prostate exam. You really can't "feel" prostatitis and, for the most part, the diagnosis is made on the "symp
toms" a patient presents with.