My husband and I have been together now for three years and about a yr and a half ago we tried to conceive but after 6 months of trying with no success we stopped. Last week, my husband and I were intimate and when he pulled out he frowned and said he thought he might not have pulled out in time. I have been off the pill since we got married and while we want children, now just isn't the ideal time. Yesterday I started noticing cramps, tender breasts and anxiety.