OK, My turn, This problem we all have is a DEEP one (I think), I come from a family of every type of
abuse there is growing up in an average suburban neighborhood,
alcohol,drugs, heroin, physical and mental abuse. My Father was NEVER home, always out with his buddies, used to drag me along to the legion at age 8 or 9 and throw me a couple of bucks and said get lost. He use to beat my mother and the 4 kids.