Your symptoms related to impulsivenss, forgetfulness, organizational problems, and struggles with self-motivation are part of the diagnostic criteria for
ADHD. A diagnosis of
ADHD includes an onset of symptoms prior to age 8, as well as impairment across settings (e.g. home, work, school).
Many primary care providers treat symptoms of ADHD with stimulants or alternatives such as Atomoxetine (Strattera).