Hello and I am very sorry to hear of your condition. Our stories are very similar. I spent 2 wks in hosp and was released on 1-08-08 with diagnosis very very similar to yours. I am 49 yr Male, 6'3, 189lbs, clean coronary arteries, healthy B/P. I can totally relate as to how confused and overwhelmed you must feel. I am also told that I need an ICD, and I am reluctant to have one implanted.
Do you have any arrhythmia issues in addition to your Cardiomyopathy?